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Dead, & euphemisms

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Georgyporky · 08/09/2022 19:20

Why do people say "passed away" ? And other euphemisms ?

My late husband didn't pass anywhere - apart from places on a Monopoly board.

He died. That's it. End of.

I corrected the undertakers when they used that phrase.

The Humanist officiant used the right word without having to be told.

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Happylittlethoughts · 08/09/2022 21:23

Because our language is rich and varied and people find the words and phrases that best describes their experiences. Many synonyms for verbs. Why the fury?

GiantTortoise · 08/09/2022 21:25

I say died, but each to their own.

SelfMadeWoman · 08/09/2022 21:29

My friends and I tend to use 'shuffled' as 'in off this mortal coil' but then we tend to quote a lot of Monty Python at each other generally! I really dislike "passed " my exh used it to refer to my mother once. I told him she was dead, she hadn't passed anything.

MagpiePi · 08/09/2022 21:30

I'm with you OP.
Can't stand the trend for 'passed' - passed wind? - passed the salt? - passed a driving test?

sunglassesonthetable · 08/09/2022 21:30

I say died, my SiL says passed, and we're talking about the same person.

I'd rather bite my own arm off than say passed myself but I wouldn't dream of saying that to my SiL. Each to their own.

SiobhanSharpe · 08/09/2022 21:36

Sometimes the terms 'passed' or 'passed away' feel quite inappropriate, for example when someone has died in a road accident or by suicide.

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