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Why are human babies so helpless and incapable of anything compared to other baby mammals?

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Keyansier · 08/09/2022 14:26

Compared to other mammals, human babies seem so incapable. They need looking after for so much longer when other mammals can walk, run, and eat from the very second they drop out of their mother. Other mammals also have instinct: if they are born without their mother or father watching their birth, they automatically know to hide/go into the sea/climb a tree etc, human babies don't know anything about anything except how to cry (other mammals don't cry as this is a weakness). How come humans are seen as the intelligent species but our young are so fragile compared against all other mammals?

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Winceybincey · 08/09/2022 15:47

Winceybincey · 08/09/2022 15:45

Both my babies did this. It was fascinating to watch. Also the ‘needling’ I think it’s called, to get the milk flowing.

ETA - wasn’t at birth but the day after.

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 08/09/2022 15:48

Good question!!! I always wondered this too... I also wonder why human females struggle so much to give birth, and suffer so much pain, and sometimes damage from giving birth, when most other animals plop them out in a few seconds with just a grunt. Something that should be natural is horrific for many women, often needs medical intervention, and sometimes needs medical help to fix the damage. Who'd be a fucking woman eh???

SleepingStandingUp · 08/09/2022 16:08

BadNomad · 08/09/2022 15:37

Fruit is bad.

Wouldn't have happened if they'd left Lillith there.

SleepingStandingUp · 08/09/2022 16:10

Regularsizedrudy · 08/09/2022 15:41

Evolution doesn’t have a will. It’s successful genetic mutations, not a conscious plan.

You'd think tho that successful genetic mutations would favour women who birth more easily, so perhaps have a large pelvis, etc. rather than there being nothing seemingly evolved in favour of not killing off Mom.

Newfluff · 08/09/2022 16:12

I wonder this about birds. Most hatch with closed eyes and no feathers and are so vulnerable and eat regurgitated food.
Chickens hatch with feathers, eyes open, can walk and feed with 12 hours.

prampushingdownthehighst · 08/09/2022 16:12

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/09/2022 15:12

They are not that quick in terms of development if you work out the proportion of helplessness to the total lifespan. I would do this but my head is full of molten concrete with a cold.
Herbivores need to be on their feet quickly, because they are prey (unless they can be hidden away in a burrow like mice and rabbits, this is difficult if you are the size of an elephant or giraffe .) I think that carnivores tend to be more dependent for longer, until they are old enough to go out and start slaying for themselves.

This
It's all about survival

clary · 08/09/2022 16:13

Yep it's bc we insist on walkign upright which means our pelvises are not wide enough to carry the human baby until it is 2 yrs old. That's why.

Hopelessacademic · 08/09/2022 16:13

SleepingStandingUp · 08/09/2022 16:10

You'd think tho that successful genetic mutations would favour women who birth more easily, so perhaps have a large pelvis, etc. rather than there being nothing seemingly evolved in favour of not killing off Mom.

but difficult births don't "kill mom" any more!
My DD was a C section (breech), born of a C section (I was also breech). That's two generations that shouldn't be here!

BadNomad · 08/09/2022 16:17

Newfluff · 08/09/2022 16:12

I wonder this about birds. Most hatch with closed eyes and no feathers and are so vulnerable and eat regurgitated food.
Chickens hatch with feathers, eyes open, can walk and feed with 12 hours.

I wonder if this is to do with where they make their nests. It's safer higher up away from harm, but at ground level there are all sorts of predators, so maybe the babies need to be more alert. I can only think of chickens and ducks. I'm not sure which other birds nest low down.

teezletangler · 08/09/2022 16:21

Yes there are others. We are called altricial mammals- those who are helpless at birth and reply on their mother. Others are cats and dogs.

CoalTit · 08/09/2022 16:31

Marsupials get to give birth to teeny tiny babies, then carry them around in a pouch... But mammals...pain and trauma. What is that about.
Excuse my pedantry, but marsupials are mammals. They have mammary glands and lactate to feed their babies.
While I'm airing my useless knowledge: atricial species are the ones where newborns are helpless, and precocial are the species born with hair or feathers, that are walking around hours after being born.

goldfinchonthelawn · 08/09/2022 16:35

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 08/09/2022 15:04

This happened to me! I had an EMCS so it took a few days for my milk to come in.

I was alerted to it finally arriving by DD wriggling her way down my body to latch on and drink it! Was an amazing moment.

That is so cute!

SleepingStandingUp · 08/09/2022 16:37

CoalTit · 08/09/2022 16:31

Marsupials get to give birth to teeny tiny babies, then carry them around in a pouch... But mammals...pain and trauma. What is that about.
Excuse my pedantry, but marsupials are mammals. They have mammary glands and lactate to feed their babies.
While I'm airing my useless knowledge: atricial species are the ones where newborns are helpless, and precocial are the species born with hair or feathers, that are walking around hours after being born.

I'll have a 4th if I can get one of those precocial ones

BadNomad · 08/09/2022 16:49

CoalTit · 08/09/2022 16:31

Marsupials get to give birth to teeny tiny babies, then carry them around in a pouch... But mammals...pain and trauma. What is that about.
Excuse my pedantry, but marsupials are mammals. They have mammary glands and lactate to feed their babies.
While I'm airing my useless knowledge: atricial species are the ones where newborns are helpless, and precocial are the species born with hair or feathers, that are walking around hours after being born.

Nerd 😜

SingularityCat · 08/09/2022 16:58

SleepingStandingUp · 08/09/2022 16:10

You'd think tho that successful genetic mutations would favour women who birth more easily, so perhaps have a large pelvis, etc. rather than there being nothing seemingly evolved in favour of not killing off Mom.

Maybe what we experience is the "evolved" form. Just look at what hyenas go through...

Spoiler: they give birth through their clitoris. It often tears 😬

mam0918 · 08/09/2022 17:26

Keyansier · 08/09/2022 14:26

Compared to other mammals, human babies seem so incapable. They need looking after for so much longer when other mammals can walk, run, and eat from the very second they drop out of their mother. Other mammals also have instinct: if they are born without their mother or father watching their birth, they automatically know to hide/go into the sea/climb a tree etc, human babies don't know anything about anything except how to cry (other mammals don't cry as this is a weakness). How come humans are seen as the intelligent species but our young are so fragile compared against all other mammals?

I worked in a vets and can summise you have never seen newborn kittens/puppies/hamsters/squirals etc... the are litrally blind, shivering, helpless fluff balls.

They stay that way less time because they have far shorter lifespans.

Take a cat for example their pregnancy is only about 2 months, their full lifespan only 12-18 years vs a human pregnancy (9 months) and lifespan (72-73 years) so obviously their 'baby' phase in relation to time frame is shorter too but they are still completely helpless at birth.

Trapped/lost kittens also cry like crazy for help unless they are so unwell they are dying.

Zilla1 · 08/09/2022 17:57

Evolutionary benefits of adults with superior intelligence from brain size outweigh costs of birthing babies with relatively large heads compared to pelvis and then the long period of dependency while development continues. Increased mortality and impacts on parents of dependency of infants and even reduced fecundity massively outweighed by competitive advantage of adults that survive.

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