Basically, long story short, ex DP was terrible to me in pregnancy and I subsequently left him but then as birth approached I begged for him back. I felt vulnerable but now know it was right to leave him.
However he has since caused an absolute nightmare with maintenance, arrangements etc. Even instructed a solicitor a few months ago. His family apparently see me as the problem and won’t speak to me either. During pregnancy I was dealing with his weed habit and lots of shitty behaviour which I took and tried to support him. I want to scream it from the rooftops that NONE OF THIS WAS ME.
Obviously my own friends and family see him for what he is but as he has a decent job and talks a good talk, I feel like there’s this narrative about me that is just wrong.
why can’t I get over this?