Interested in your opinion!
I don't forgive people who hurt or betray me , it's a coping mechanism that I have always had and barriers come up and I don't ever put them back down again .
I only have a small circle of friends and trust is very important to me . I am very shy, private and all those I trust know if I get hurt by them or they betray me I won't ever forgive them . This may seem harsh to you but I am a very loyal friend with a big heart , I never let anyone down , hurt my friends or betray their trust .
In the past I have been hurt so badly by so called friends that I got hurt and that's why I can't be friends or trust just anyone .
I have 3 sisters, we are very close . We are there for each other . So although we all have friends no one else comes close to us four .
One of my friends betrayed me in my group of friends a year ago and I have cut her out of my life . She knows she has done it and has apologised but the situation in which this has happened in was so serious and she just decided she just wasn't there for a whole year , I don't need that especially as I am still going through the trauma of it now .
She still keeps contact with my husband and that annoys me . She lives across the road so I can't even avoid her . There is no chance of reconciliation, I just want her to accept it and move on .