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Shower thoughts... About cultural appropriation

99 replies

00100001 · 07/09/2022 18:55

So, I'll start with this is light. Not a deeeeeep meaningful thought it anything. More of a pondering.

Is it cultural appropriation to make recipes from other cultures? So for example, my 3yo niece and I read the book Chapatti Moon, and from that we made chappatis and some pakora.

Would it be (in some way) cultural appropriation? Or ... Maybe appreciation?

I would err to appreciation. However, I might be wrong! My reasoning is it we were learning about different foods from around the world and made them to experience them. Not "take" them as our own. If that makes sense?

As such is the British curry an appropriation? How to do "gate keep" things? Societies evolve and move on, partly due to external influences...

It must be a fine line for some things?

/End rambling

OP posts:
bellac11 · 07/09/2022 22:46

UrsulaPandress · 07/09/2022 22:40

Oh dear god. So it’s just the British who can’t cook other foods?

And as to who colonised whom I think you’ll find the Romans invaded Albion.

And the French, Portuguese, Dutch, Spanish, French, Italians, various previous empires (Ottoman, Mongolian, Chinese, Roman)....

bellac11 · 07/09/2022 22:47

SnoozyLucy7 · 07/09/2022 22:42

What? You say it’s only appropriation if white people do it but not the other way round? What are you talking about? So if a Polish person wanted to cook a Pad Thai (a Thai dish), would that be considered cultural appropriation because he was white, but if a a Thai person cooked Pierogi (a Polish dish), then that would not be considered cultural appropriation? Can you please clarify?

Thats the point the poster was making

JaneJeffer · 07/09/2022 22:55

Cultural appropriation is a load of cobblers.

SnoozyLucy7 · 07/09/2022 22:58

museumum · 07/09/2022 19:23

Not inappropriate at all to cook Indian food. It might be a bit dubious to open an Indian restaurant if you have no Indian heritage and with no Indian staff though!

I get that but, I have met Italians, for example (and I use that as only an example as it could be any other nationality but I am using Italy as just a general example) , who can not cook for toffee, who can barely cook an egg, who are not interested in cooking. I have also met non- Italian chefs, who has been trained to within an inch of their lives to cook some of the best Italian food imaginable. And these people are not Italian. Is that cultural appropriation?

JaneJeffer · 07/09/2022 22:59

UrsulaPandress · 07/09/2022 22:24

If you ain’t from Yorkshire, leave our puddings alone.

It's great how you grow your own tea in Yorkshire too 😛

declutteringmymind · 07/09/2022 23:01

You're overthinking this.

SnoozyLucy7 · 07/09/2022 23:03

bellac11 · 07/09/2022 22:47

Thats the point the poster was making

Yes, I understand but I was responding to @ginghamstarfish

bellac11 · 07/09/2022 23:06

SnoozyLucy7 · 07/09/2022 23:03

Yes, I understand but I was responding to @ginghamstarfish

I know, thats the point they were making. The poster you responded to

(and it took me ages to scroll back and find the name of who you referred to, I wish there were post numbers on this site, its impossible to navigate, I hate it when people just put @ and a name, no reference point to where the post is)

Namenic · 07/09/2022 23:11

I don’t think it’s cultural appropriation. If people are respectful I think it is ok. If is an anglicised version of something, then say that - it can still be yummy and easy to cook. In fact most of the dishes I cook from my culture are anglicised.

SteveHarringtonsChestHair · 07/09/2022 23:11

bellac11 · 07/09/2022 20:59

Oh god, not the dreadlock thing again. White people with dreadlocks have been around since Roman times.

In addition white people are more that capable of being Rastafarians if they believe in it, its not a colour thing.

Ok then. Bantu knots instead of dreadlocks.

like when Adele got scolded for wearing her hair like this

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 07/09/2022 23:14

@SteveHarringtonsChestHair mostly from Americans.

bellac11 · 07/09/2022 23:15

SteveHarringtonsChestHair · 07/09/2022 23:11

Ok then. Bantu knots instead of dreadlocks.

like when Adele got scolded for wearing her hair like this

Im hoping she told them all to fuck off or just didnt respond at all

Poppycock as the MP said

Peachyscream · 07/09/2022 23:16

Don't overthink it!
My teen dd has online friends from all over the world, we've recently had a couple of family weddings. An american friend was complimenting her make up and outfits (traditional) and said "I wish I could pull that off it looks so exotic etc but it's cultural appropriation". I heard my dd say "literally nobody from my culture cares, go for it" and then they did their make up together on facetime or whatever it was.
I mean, I see no harm in it either. 🤷‍♀️ My hairdresser asked me to "fix" her curry...it was rank and tasteless. I gave her a cooking lesson and gave her the masalas I use. I honestly don't understand how anyone could see that as wrong.

CharlotteSt · 07/09/2022 23:20

And another Italian owned and run by Kosovans.

Yes, I know of at least three Italian restaurants that are run by Albanians.

winnerwiner · 07/09/2022 23:22

It's important to be completely meritocratic - good food is good food. If you look at this in an extreme way, Tayto crisps are cultural appropriation as is tomato sauce on pizza, tomato and potatoes are both are from the Americas originally.

Some of the best dishes I've had are merging skills and techniques of different cultures for example a Korean taco place, a mash up of Korean grilled meats, pickles and Mexican tacos or Indian butter chicken poutine, a mash up of the Quebeqoise poutine (chips, gravy and cheese curds), with a finisher of apple cinnamon samosas.

You only have to look to Malaysia which has some of the most interesting cuisine in Asia to see that the variation and looking outwards to others and learning from them elavates. Calling it cultural appropriation limits everything especially because at the heart of most of the "borrowing from other cultures" is a deep appreciation demonstrating how highly the person thinks of it. If they profit from it, good luck to them well done for making something inventive and delicious.

GiveUsACoffee · 07/09/2022 23:29

snackcurator · 07/09/2022 19:53

As a British Indian, I think it's a lovely idea. I obviously don't speak for all Indians but I can't how that could possibly be deemed offensive. You might be judged on how round your chappatis are though. Nothing short of perfectly round will be deemed unacceptable! Wink

Yes! I feel that pressure (as a British Indian). Plus, don't forget the 'puffiness'

worriedatthistime · 07/09/2022 23:30

The world has gone mad
Every chef makes and profits from dishes from around the world in all countries
Every fish and chip shop in my home town is owned by non english - who cares ?

PremiumPiglet · 07/09/2022 23:41

User2145738790 · 07/09/2022 19:44

Yes, it is cultural appropriation. Stick to eating raw turnips, op.

Cultural appropriation applies to sheep as well

Scianel · 07/09/2022 23:56

I don't see who Adele was harming wearing her hair like that. It's offense about nothing but the Americans are weird about that stuff.

Gymnopedie · 08/09/2022 00:40

Well I saw the thread title and wondered how the hell taking a shower could be counted as cultural appropriation. 😊

suzyscat · 08/09/2022 00:44

No you're fine, keep making chapatis, they're great.

I thought about this a lot in recent years and came to the conclusion that cultural appropriation is a misnomer used to cover cultural imbrication, cultural appreciation and cultural exploitation .

Cultural exploitation is the issue, but appreciation and imbrication are policed the same by keyboard vigilantes.

My concern is this rhetoric makes people wary of cultural appreciation and is actually decisive in itself.

I'm from a very diverse area and IME people love sharing their culture. You know the spirit with which your engaging in other cultures and whether it's exploitative or not.

It's a strange thing to police anyway, you can't know someone's heritage, ethnicity or culture instantly.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 08/09/2022 03:11

I'll admit to eating Shepherd's Pie and I'm not a shepherd, in fact I haven't even got one sheep.

Which raises the thought that 'the word sheep is both plural and singular, how many other words are like that?'

DinosApple · 08/09/2022 06:43

My Indian grandfather taught me to make chapattis. My Indian mother and grandmother taught me to make curry. I have white skin like my father.

The term cultural appropriation is a very poor fit for those of us with mixed heritage. Skin tone does not denote cultural heritage.

Aside from that, cooking is about sharing and appreciating different culture. Enjoy it!

Intothewoodland · 08/09/2022 06:47

I would be devastated if it was!

Intothewoodland · 08/09/2022 06:47

Posted too soon. Most of the food I eat does not come from my English or Scottish heritage!