Hiya I like a option
on what been going on in my life
so here what been going on last year augs the 9th my dad died it was shock for all off us
My mum was in a bad way for months she just wanted end thing we stay at her moths
making sure she was ok she didn't want
be here no more Then after Christmas she made a friend a man friend but which nice she started doing thingswith him
but she
went I bit weird She n
become obsessed with him and wanted to be with him all the time He started staying over in the spare room And every time he come round to stay over or he wanted to do Something with mum
we wasn't allowed to see her she tells us that hes her friend and only hers
didn't want us to get to know him So sometimes we'll have a rows cause she's
cancelled planned with us like a the last min then that sort of end out of know where
Also need to tell you that me and my sister was never really that close And then when my dad died we got closer and started talking more and for some reason my mum doesn't like it.
So back to what I was telling you so after that It was Father's Day and my mum started asking me those questions how ID feel if she D met someone and what will happen between us I thought nothing of it and my mum haven't met anybody so we don't need to talk about it Anyway the day after Father's Day she told me that she
put herself on match.com and she
met somebody I was a little bit shocked how soon it was after my dad died I told her I was fine with that and I'm happy for her but I don't feel comfortable meeting her partner just yet and she was fine with that And obviously they started dating and she started staying over the weekends and he the same back When my dad was alive I used to see my mum every single day and And we did lots of things together as well She lived just round the corner from
us
She started spending hours on the phone to her new partner even though she
seen him all the time she told me to stop phoning her because she didn't need to talk to me anymore
And I need to get my own life And stop keep hassling her and phone we had few rows after that some
are quite bad for us I'm not saying I'm all sweet and innocent it was both ways but my mum made it seem as though it was just me she fitted a doorbell that had a camera on and so she would do everything inside her porch be nasty to me my daughter and then when we retaliated it was all on the camera after 12 week of been with her new parent she put her house up for sale
and moved in with her parents told us she loves us but she not going too live round her anymore she things there going too move aboard and I said we never see you again as I won't have thr money too keep going aboard she didn't really care she said it her life and her job as a mum done could not believe it few weeks later
she invite round too her house
when she came home her partner
and my uncle
was there me daughter and chatted
thought thr day went well he ask how I was feeling with I told it be hard as I told him about
1st it was as my mum had a man friend and that was hard to start anyway cut long story short we left thinking everything was OK from to find out my mum was really cross with us because we talk about her man friend before her partner
she had ago at us I said I was sorry
that didn't even know done anything wrong she thrn block me on the phone and told me and daughter that she won't unblock us she phone us when she wants be in contact
I ask her how that going too work things out
can we get back too normal if u we block us she said we got
prove ourselves to her that we are sorry and that we can talk to her without having any arguments and when we see her it is any
Opinions in disagreements then that's the end of the relationship and she doesn't like
that I've got close to my sister she's also said she
why I'm
talking my sister she may
end a relationship or I might have to pick between her and my sister she also won't give me thr address where she living too send birthday present ect
my uncle say she right in everything also week ago she hand
all the present and photos of us and thing we brought her and made her over thr years
that was really hurt full and then brought all Christmas prwsent round in augs said what you do thrm and handed my sister and her family which I pass on too her she went and hand thrm back to my mum
but it was my thought for
not telling her my sister was going give them back I can't win she saying she had bad life with my dad which she didn't and say untrue things about him he can't speak back
as he here anymore no one believe me and my sister of how nasy shr become
I just want my old mum back that loved everyone but she only seem too love herself she told my teenage daughter she was not
normally
because she dont have lot of friends
and she said she should a boyfriend by now she only 16 she also turn up my house to tell me and my daughter shr loves but she keep us block she kept coming too our a secret
didn't tell everyone she also phone me at 6 am when her partner at work and thrn tell everyone I was phoning I said how can it be me when I blocked please tell me what you think and what you do I just feel like I going mad she wants when she wants us