I really really don't understand this.
We have been friends for 9 years now and met through work.
It was her 30th birthday in March and I organised a party and invited all her friends /work friends etc (I asked for a list of people she wanted to invite )
Anyway I hit it off with her friends who were kind enough to help me with the party and we exchanged numbers and we have kids around same age.
They added me to their WhatsApp group and invited me out and we all got along great.
Went for meet-ups with our kids etc
After a few weeks I could tell my friend wasn't happy and one of the girls said to me "she doesn't like her friends being friends with each other does she"
It was so obvious.
She started to try and cause animosity between us by being a "he said ,she said " type of person ...and I just didn't have time for it.
I told her this and she played dumb ...
Anyway last weekend was one of the girls 30ths and there was no issues.
My friend was being off with me so in the toilets I asked her what her problem was ..she was chatting fine saying "no problem with me"
One of the girls walked in (I didn't see at the time as I was stood facing away from door)
And she starts talking loudly "why are you being so aggressive,I'm there friend too,your anger issues are back please leave " and burst out crying ...
I was dumbstruck ...and then realised this girl was behind
She then goes
"I'm sorry (Anne )I did try and warn you what she was like,i have had this for 9 years at work,I'm sorry I've brought you in to this mess"
And she asked me to leave ..I was confused and tried explaining but she went on to say "you have ruined her birthday party "
I got home and I was blocked everywhere ..
Clearly this was her way of stopping me having any of her friendship group as my friends
What would you do ?