Not sure if I’m being a bit dramatic by my boyfriend (also the father of our 8mo son) is just always so nasty with his words when angry. Then when he calms down says he ‘obviously didn’t mean it’
for example I took the remote as a joke like playing around. He flicks me in the head repeatedly and wakes the baby sleeping in my arms I say “you’ve just woke the baby”
he says “no that was you it always is” then says I’m a brat and I act like a baby
and when I’ve tried to explain how his reaction was a bit much he won’t speak to me and says I’m not ruining his birthday (tomorrow)
So I’m sat feeling a bit sad because I don’t get why he’s so dismissive of me. He never used to be like this with me it’s only been this past year ironically? I know having a baby tests people I just thought he’d love me more considering all I do (aka 90% of parenting)