You seem very defensive about your choices onetwo I am talking about my lived experience and those of my Finnish friends. Finland (and parts of Sweden) are in fact some of the darkest and gloomiest places on earth, there is no sunlight at all for long periods of time and I felt constantly tired, drained and depressed when we lived there. November to January is particularly hard going living in absolute, permanent darkness.
You can say it is all about fruit picking, but you can do that anywhere! In my own garden for instance, but that does not make up for such long period of overwhelming darkness.
As a young person there are limited employment prospects and some towns were 'dead' with nothing at all happening, as a result many travel if they have the resources to look for work and life outside of Finland. I found the fashion, food offering, restaurant options, quality of life basically everything was very limited. If you like saunas great, but if you don't then there is literally nothing to do. The suicide rate is higher than the rest of the European Union on average, surely you must know that if you live there.
I prefer the crowds and fun of England than the wasteland that is much of Finland, but that is my choice because I like a big social life and choices of things to do. Yes the snow is fun for the first few weeks, and then it is just a pain.
Obviously every country has its upsides, and Finland has plenty of things to celebrate but to cast it as some utopia is just ridiculous as in reality it is can be a brutal impoverished life in many places.
And as for Russia, I am sorry to tell you but you should already know that Finland does not belong to Nato...