@alwayshavebeenfemale
hi, you're doing just fine for a 'newbie' 🤗
if you use the @ key in a post a list of posters on the thread will appear & you can start typing the name & it'll narrow down the choices. You can have your setting on/off for receiving notifications if someone @'s you.
the fixed rate to the SVR definitely explains the jump in cost. It's UTTERLY crap that so many were shafted by companies going under.
IF you get offered another fixed deal, look at the standing charge & the price per kWh, because in the end that's all that matters, the DD can be negotiated, you only pay for what you use, so the cheapest rate is always going to be the best deal.
Fireplaces in all those rooms, I can but dream. I gave THE most beautiful stone cottage in my mind, I hope it's every bit as lovely as I picture!!
It IS another sadness & worry when you least need it, it's another aspect of feeling the loneliness, not having someone to share the worry with or to make plans to do things to keep warm etc. it's so bloody unfair!!
I'm 53, not widowed, but living alone (which I know isn't the same thing!!), but I do share some aspects of it!
take care & look after yourself 🥰