DC is 18 months. When pregnant DP’s drinking escalated and he got charged for drink driving. That wasn’t why I left, I left as he obviously didn’t cope well with this or being forced to cut alcohol, it seriously halted his career progression and he just spiralled into misery. I always remained open and willing to talk and certainly didn’t cut him from involvement in any way. However, he just withdrew snd I got on with it. It came to my attention yesterday that he’s been promoted - quite a big deal in this industry and definitely means he’s functioning again. I’m surprised he’s not been in touch. Would you get in touch? I personally don’t want him in my life myself but it would be nice for dc before they begin to notice he’s not there. I have reached out before but heard nothing back so stopped in the last 6/7 months. He does pay maintenance but he and I never discussed it, just went through online system