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How much would you charge?

14 replies

Hisnameisfinlay · 22/08/2022 13:57

Based on these circumstances how much keep would you ask for?

Adult DC
Works PT
Box bedroom
No TV in room so electricity using phone charger/light/hair tools etc
Buys own food
Shower a day, uses cooker/microwave for meals, rarely uses downstairs TV
Is often out on weekend evenings

Thank you :)

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ScootyAlan · 22/08/2022 14:10

When my son got a ft job I quartered (there were 4 of us) the bills, (all of them) then took a bit off to be nice. He paid £200 a month, then my soft hearted dh lowered it to £170.

Move22 · 22/08/2022 14:15

Depends on if you need the cash. Also how adult. A 21 year old working part time, I would not charge as they are buying their own food.

Surtsey · 22/08/2022 14:18

£40 a week? Minimal, but they do need to contribute something, otherwise they'll get into the habit of thinking that having a roof over your head costs nothing.

Mammajay · 25/02/2023 15:07

Nothing unless I really needed the !ney

Mammajay · 25/02/2023 15:08

Money

Viewfrommyhouse · 25/02/2023 15:09

Nothing unless I needed it.

NeverTrustAPoliceman · 25/02/2023 15:26

Nothing if I thought they were being sensible with money and with life generally. Probably about £50 a week if they were wasting a lot of their wages, but would invest it without them knowing. Then give it back once they have become sensible. It could be a good nest egg for them.

We didn't charge a DC in that position but made sure they were investing money in an ISA each month.

IslandRain · 25/02/2023 15:31

Realistically they’re not going to add much to your bills. Do you lose council tax discount or anything like that? If so charge that and a very small amount for electricity. If not, either nothing or a very small amount, maybe £20 a week.

Floralnomad · 25/02/2023 15:31

Unless you need the money I would not charge anything , encourage them to save for themselves so that they can eventually move out .

PeekAtYou · 25/02/2023 15:33

Does he clean and do his own laundry?

Liorae · 25/02/2023 15:33

100 a week.

trustfall · 25/02/2023 15:35

Liorae · 25/02/2023 15:33

100 a week.

Is that a joke?

Liorae · 25/02/2023 15:39

trustfall · 25/02/2023 15:35

Is that a joke?

No, it is a realistic assessment of what he should be getting used to in the real world. Much less than he would have to pay in real life, but enough to be a wake up call.

drivinmecrazy · 25/02/2023 15:45

Oh god I have no answer cos I'm in an almost identically situation.
Summer graduate at home working at Starbucks while finding her dream job.
I've suggested to DH and her that £50 per week is realistic as she averages £300 per week.
DH takes the line that we don't really need the money and DD says she'd rather contribute ad hoc.
I think she should pay because she's eating and drinking far more than £50 a week.
So I've given her the option of her paying £25 per week half board (her paying extra if she fancies a bottle of wine or her particular foods) or £50 all inclusive 😂
I'm yet to hear her decision but no doubt DH will slash it by half !

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