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Long journey?

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Thistledew · 18/08/2022 19:58

If someone told you that they had had a “long journey” would you think:

a) they had travelled a long distance
b) they had travelled a relatively short and routine route but that it had taken them much longer than usual
c) either of those options

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Thistledew · 18/08/2022 20:42

Anyone?

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IsDaveThere · 18/08/2022 20:49

C) either of those, depending on the context.

DownNative · 18/08/2022 20:56

I'd be thinking an actual long journey because a short journey that's taken ages due to delays is still not a long journey. It's just a short journey that's taken a longer than normal time to complete. Not the same thing.

PuttingDownRoots · 18/08/2022 20:59

Depends on context.

I do a 200mile drive reasonably regularly. (Which is long anyway). But sometimes its a lot more tiring than others. It has taken between 3.5hrs and 7hrs before.

Whataplanker · 18/08/2022 21:05

C

MrsMoastyToasty · 18/08/2022 21:33

Both.

We regularly do a trip to Mull from Bristol. It takes 10-12 hours (shared) driving, including 1 one hour sea crossing (winter) or 1 loch crossing and 1 short sea crossing (summer).
It's a long journey, especially when you think after 12 hours in a plane would get us half way across the globe.
Unfortunately road or rail plus sea is the only way to get to Mull. There's no airport.

Thistledew · 18/08/2022 22:15

Would you refer to a regular commute as a “journey”? It’s a quirk of the English language, I think. You would say “My journey to work took a long time today” to mean that your regular commute was subject to delays, but saying “I had a long journey to work today” I think implies you have had to travel further than normal.

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abovedecknotbelow · 18/08/2022 23:23

What are you asking?

A long journey is a long journey. When I drove to France and it's 14 hours it's a long journey. When I go round the m25 and expect an hour and it takes three, it's a longer than normal journey.

Thistledew · 19/08/2022 00:25

My question came from yet another silly way I’ve offended my MIL. I came back from work today. She was at my house having looked after DS for a couple of hours. She commented “You’ve had a long journey today”. I replied “No, I only went to X as usual” (20 miles, but the traffic was very slow coming home). I thought that she had assumed I had been further afield. She got snippy with me for ‘correcting’ her when clearly she was referring to the travel time not the distance. I so often find that I have to interpret what she says as we seem to use language very differently. I was just trying to gauge whether I had any proper basis to misinterpret what she said.

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DownNative · 19/08/2022 18:34

Thistledew · 19/08/2022 00:25

My question came from yet another silly way I’ve offended my MIL. I came back from work today. She was at my house having looked after DS for a couple of hours. She commented “You’ve had a long journey today”. I replied “No, I only went to X as usual” (20 miles, but the traffic was very slow coming home). I thought that she had assumed I had been further afield. She got snippy with me for ‘correcting’ her when clearly she was referring to the travel time not the distance. I so often find that I have to interpret what she says as we seem to use language very differently. I was just trying to gauge whether I had any proper basis to misinterpret what she said.

"Long journey" definitely refers to a LOT of miles. Way more than 20 miles too.

"You've had a longer than usual journey" would refer to time and, potentially, miles.

It's that simple.

BogRollBOGOF · 19/08/2022 18:56

Long is an adjective that can apply to time and distance.

Neither of you were particularly "wrong" in usage, but her getting snippy about it is daft.

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