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Where in the UK should we move to??

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ifihavetomove · 17/08/2022 21:02

Do you live somewhere affordable and nice? Where do you recommend?

NCed as I know some people on here and not up to discussing this in person yet. My DH and I both born and raised in Sussex but with our incomes and the housing market we will need to move if we want to buy a home - we rent at the moment and have a 1 year old DC.

We can move anywhere, I'm a primary teacher and he's a dog trainer. We both work part time on different days in order to do childcare ourselves, we earn around 30k between us. (Total not each). We've known this was coming so we've been saving well, had a cheap registry wedding, no holidays etc and with good savings accounts and some help from family over the years we'll have about a 70k deposit.

We both have Help to Buy ISAs which means we'll get given 25% of what we've saved - if the property is maximum 250k, so this is our budget. We're not picky about where we live, we'd love to get as much garden as possible as we love to grow our own food. We don't mind where as long as decent schools nearby and ok size house with a garden. Happy to do work on a place.

I'm looking and looking and just don't know where to narrow my search. Honestly I'm sad we have to move at all as our whole lives are in Sussex, our family, friends, memories, favourite places...but with our jobs, wanting more kids in future, and the housing costs in Sussex, we just can't stay. So - recommend me places! Where is nice?

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DownNative · 18/08/2022 06:31

ifihavetomove · 17/08/2022 21:40

@wonderstuff 3 bed would be better for future children but could do 2 bed and try to extend in future. Happy to move anywhere in the UK. Not sure what else we can compromise on as the only thing I said we wanted was a garden

@TreadSoftlyOnMyDreams I have looked into this as have some Irish family, but primary teachers in Ireland need to know the Irish language to leaving cert. level which I do not! Could study it with an online course or something?

@Twospaniels thank you I will look into the area!

Primary school teachers in NORTHERN Ireland do not need to know any Gaelic at all.

It's only the Republic of Ireland that has that condition.

Goldencup · 18/08/2022 06:38

Have you considered Hastings ?

www.zoopla.co.uk/for-sale/details/62191185/?search_identifier=783ef1f3f4bfdd312de6510a5663b9a6

Goldencup · 18/08/2022 06:43

Or Bexhill (schools are massively improving, lovely sea front, lots of good restaurants)
www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/121428134#/?channel=RES_BUY

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SilentHedges · 18/08/2022 06:46

BarryBiscuit · 17/08/2022 23:16

Dumfries www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/125995400#/?channel=RES_BUY half hour train to Carlisle then I think so about 3.5 hours to London

Another vote for Moffat, purely as a work colleague relocated there from London and is so happy. I've visited and its a nice place, beautiful countryside, and accessible to the Highlands and England.

You'll get a lot more for your money.

DangerouslyBored · 18/08/2022 06:46

Think really hard before committing to moving away from the South. I have a friend who moved up north for cheaper housing and now can’t move back and she hates where she lives, really misses her family and not having any support being so far away. She also really misses the South and bitterly regrets moving. Financially, it’s v hard to move back.

Boybandfacedfannyfart · 18/08/2022 06:49

plenty of room here and views to die for. Depends if you would fancy the prospect of being a head teacher in a small rural school. There are £50k posts with a handful of children.

www.estateagencyshetland.co.uk/properties/olna-cottage

WinniePig · 18/08/2022 06:56

Scarborough and the East coast. I grew up there. It has a beautiful coastline. Loads of places to explore. The town is a little run down but there has been some recent investment in the area: open air theatre, brilliant open air pool and some lovely restaurants around the harbour. Culture too with Ayckbourn’s theatre in the round. Plus you’re close to York.

Roselilly36 · 18/08/2022 06:56

We moved from Sussex to Norwich last year, our move was to downsize, needed a bungalow due to my disability etc. We also knew our DS (21 & 19) would struggle be able to get on the property ladder in Sussex. So it was now or never as we wanted to relocate all together.

Best move we have made for so many reasons, property prices represent better value for money, in fact we have found everything is better value for money here, sandy beaches within 30-40 min drive, people are friendly (much friendlier than Sussex IMHO) lovely city centre. Traffic is also much easier.

And if your DH is a dog trainer, his business would do well here I would imagine, dogs galore in Norfolk!

Good luck with deciding and your move, it’s a wrench to move from family, but it’s only 3hrs or so, not Australia.

OperaStation · 18/08/2022 06:59

Rather than move away from all of your family and friends could one of you retrain in a career with more earning potential?

Paramummy3 · 18/08/2022 07:01

Southport. Cheapish property, lovely parks, beaches, good schools, lots going on for families :)

Fieldfly · 18/08/2022 07:02

Moving to Scotland sounds too dramatic to me - especially if you don’t want to move away from family!

theveg · 18/08/2022 07:06

Another one for the North East, suburbs of Newcastle, Whickham, Low Fell, Great Park, Gosforth

Think it would be v difficult to find something in these areas within budget?

wheresmymojo · 18/08/2022 07:06

The Peak District?

Ashbourne is a lovely market town

www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/124593896

LOSTladyscarlett · 18/08/2022 07:08

I live down in Hampshire on the south coast. It's absolutely beautiful down here. And we're in driving distance of beaches, foresters and major attractions as well.

There is a good train line connection to London and the north.
My family used to live is West Sussex which is also a very beautiful part of the UK. IMO

Might be worth checking out Hampshire.

Snowoctopus · 18/08/2022 07:12

Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
Here is a lovely house in Lochaber

Fieldfly · 18/08/2022 07:16

Snowoctopus - but it’s very far from anywhere! And I’d like to see a picture on a normal wet and windy day!

User48751490 · 18/08/2022 07:39

Eeksteek · 18/08/2022 01:09

Surely not Scotland if you want to grow food? It requires actual sunshine and a growing season measured in months not minutes!!! I love my garden and would only consider south of the midlands for that reason (when I move in 5ish years)

What utter crap people post on MN sometimes. Can you not grow lettuce, carrots, spring onions, leeks, tatties etc??? All possible to grow well in Scotland.

PuttingDownRoots · 18/08/2022 07:47

We moved to a village just outside Doncaster last year. 3 bed was just under 200k. Nice schools (just normal schools, not London fancy). Lots of stuff for the kids. Great road network. We chose it for the central location as DH job moves around a lot.

dockspider · 18/08/2022 07:57

User48751490 · 18/08/2022 07:39

What utter crap people post on MN sometimes. Can you not grow lettuce, carrots, spring onions, leeks, tatties etc??? All possible to grow well in Scotland.

I was thinking the same 🙄berries also do brilliantly here - we are surrounded by strawberry farms but in my own garden we have blueberries, raspberries and red currants galore all through the summer. We pick kilos and kilos of wild blueberries every summer. The usual suspects like peas, beans etc also thrive.
My friend with a greenhouse gets brilliant crops of tomatoes, sweet corn, cucumber…

Beachhutnut · 18/08/2022 08:06

I would look in Northwest England, Wales or Scotland to future proof from droughts as heatwaves are only going to get worse even if the world does pull it's finger out on climate change.

WilsonandNoodles · 18/08/2022 08:11

Cumbria, avoiding the Lake District. Beautiful area, affordable housing, good schools but plenty of vacancies and loads of dogs!

OperaStation · 18/08/2022 08:35

dockspider · 18/08/2022 07:57

I was thinking the same 🙄berries also do brilliantly here - we are surrounded by strawberry farms but in my own garden we have blueberries, raspberries and red currants galore all through the summer. We pick kilos and kilos of wild blueberries every summer. The usual suspects like peas, beans etc also thrive.
My friend with a greenhouse gets brilliant crops of tomatoes, sweet corn, cucumber…

Wild blueberries? Blueberries don’t grow wild in the UK. I think you’re confusing bilberries for blueberries.

You might still be able to grow plenty of food in Scotland but there’s no denying that the growing season is a lot shorter. I live in the southeast and we picked our first outdoor tomatoes in early July. If someone was trying to be as self sufficient as possible they would do better further south unless they wanted to grow everything in polytunnels.

Kizzy192 · 18/08/2022 08:36

We currently live in a nice area of Bristol - 'worst house on best street' kind of thing - and have ds1. We're looking at moving over the bridge to Wales soon. For the cost of a two bed flat no garden we can get a 3/4 bed with large garden nice views and good schools. It's close enough to Bristol that there are still good train networks for you to get home regularly/have visitors?

HelloDaisy · 18/08/2022 08:45

Goldencup · 18/08/2022 06:38

Definitely worth looking at. I’ve got family in Hastings Old Town and it’s lovely there, very affordable and everyone is really friendly.

Goldbar · 18/08/2022 08:50

In your situation, I'd definitely give Norwich a look, but then I'm an urbanite and would sacrifice space to have good local facilities, not need to drive everywhere and be in a nice small city with lots going on. I see it has already been mentioned once or twice and some friends of ours moved there recently and the move seems to be going well. Depending on where you looked, you'd get a 3-bed terrace/semi although might not be the most spacious.

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