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Contraceptive pill misery - I just want one that works

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riversofblood · 16/08/2022 12:50

I used to take Microgynon and had no problems with it. My male GP at the time who was horrible for so many reasons decided to shift me onto Cezarette, which I didn't stay on for long, because it gave me terrible mood swings to the point where I genuinely feared I'd kill someone if I kept taking it.

He wouldn't prescribe me Microgynon anymore (even though I had no risk factors at that time) and I just stopped having sex.

Fast forward many years later, and I'd like to have some sort of sex life. I've been prescribed Norgeston, been on it for a few months, and it feels like I can't stop bleeding. The periods are medium rather than heavy, but they last forever. My normal periods were about seven days with Microgynon, five days with nothing, but right now I've passed the two-week mark. This is not normal!

I'm so tired - a combination of not sleeping well from the heat, and possibly from bleeding for two weeks. And from being warmer than usual, because my body temperature goes up when I'm on my period, and with the weather being what it is, those extra few degrees are tipping me over the edge.

Do I just accept that no doctor is ever going to give me a hormonal contraceptive I get on with, now that I'm older and fatter?

I would also add that I had no issues with weight gain whilst on Microgynon, but I've put on weight with Norgeston. So I feel fat and unattractive, so I guess that sorts out the contraceptive point, because I won't be having sex anytime soon feeling like this...

Possibly incoherent; just generally miserable and looking for support from other women who have managed to get a pill that works a bit later in life.

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riversofblood · 26/08/2022 11:44

Softplayhooray · 26/08/2022 09:31

By the way I think it's weird and maybe lack of expertise that made the GP give you the mini pill. There's some out of date info that women over a certain age should only have the mini pill but it's very flawed, and actually a low dose combined pill is often way, way better which supports you still using microgynon or the same product under a different brand name. I've started taking a Microgynon alternative largely for peri and so far I fell great. I think that's possiboe for you too...

I remember feeling very uncomfortable when I was originally taken off the combined pill - it felt a lot like the male GP I was talking to had just received a newsletter saying 'tell all women over 30 to go on the mini pill.' My weight was completely under control then, so the only contraindication was age, and barely so. I wish I'd advocated for myself more strongly and just stayed on the combined pill.

The female GP I spoke to (who actually had a background in family planning and knew what it's like to be a woman) accepted straight away that the mini pill just wasn't working for me. When I told the male GP that the Cezeratte he'd prescribed instead of Microgynon was wrecking my life, he seemed almost angry at me for it not working rather than supportive.

It's harder to get appointments with this GP (possibly she's more popular due to not being crap), but I'm sticking with her because she's worth the wait. I haven't heard of Selina, but as long as it's a combined pill, I'm open to trying it. The whole point of going on hormonal contraception was to try and have a love life again, but as I feel like such an ugly whale right now anyway, I'm happy to do the additional testing and get some help with weight loss in the meantime.

I'm hoping now I've come off this awful pill that my appetite and mood will go back to normal, and the weight will be easier to shift anyway. If I'm no longer bleeding all the time, I might have enough energy to do some exercise again!

Thanks for giving me the confidence to push the issue and talk to another doctor. Honestly, I was so worn down when I originally posted.

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Prestissimo · 26/08/2022 12:12

Sounds like a good result OP and I'm pleased you now have a GP you trust and can talk to. Fingers crossed things improve for you very soon.

ilovebeigefood · 26/08/2022 12:18

Marina coil was a godsend to me.

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