I left my ex in pregnancy, for all sorts of reasons really. He was pretty shit to me and cared about his work over and above anyone and anything else. It was a horrible time and things were said on both sides that were bad.
Since dc has been here, and leading up to birth, I tried to suggest me met to talk. Not about the relationship but about dc. It didn’t happen, he was unwilling.
I am fine with him not around as he’s not a decent partner and it’s no loss to me on that front but as my maternity has rolled on I sometimes feel shit that we haven’t just spoken you know? That he’s not seen dc. I sometimes type a message then think no, he would be in touch if he wanted to be amicable.
has anyone been in a similar situation? It’s the hostility I don’t like for the sake of dc, and it seems unnecessary as I have no axe to grind with him, I have no feelings at all. Just a desire to be civil.