I fear I am spending too much time thinking about this!
I know him through a hobby club. He's recently divorced, still sorting out selling the house. He didn't want to divorce and has been miserable for literally years because of it all, but he seems to have accepted his lot now.
I'm single.
I organise social things for the club and he has helped with the organisation in the past.
He has suggested a "thing" similar to what I have been doing and I assumed he meant as a club and said fine, organise it! He has mentioned it several times since but says it's a busy place and might not work for a large group. Then he mentions how good it is again!
So, is he trying to suggest we go just the two of us?
I like him, find him easy company, but I'm not particularly "interested". However I work in school and have adult children so I have a bit of time on my hands currently and I know he works shifts that mean he has time off in the week. I'm looking for something to do on Friday and was thinking of grasping the bull by the horns and asking to go on this thing with him ! It's a day out.
But if I do, I'm not sure what it is exactly. Not a date, but we're not really friends either 😆