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Urgent question about police caution/warning

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Worriedbsl · 10/08/2022 15:07

Is a caution and a warning the same thing?

is it obvious if you’ve had a caution? I was asked by the police to leave the premises of an ex when I had turned up looking for a piece of jewellery I thought was still at his place. He refused to engage with me and called the police instead. There was nothing else to it than that, nothing physical or any shouting etc. But it’s just occurred to me that when they asked me to go was that a warning/caution? They were pretty nice and said if I was worried he had taken something I could report it and they would look into it. But they did also say I should leave and it would be best not to come back.

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ApolloandDaphne · 10/08/2022 15:10

It was neither a warning, nor a caution, they just asked you to leave which you did. If they give you a caution they have to tell you and you have to agree to it.

MuthaHubbard · 10/08/2022 15:10

Usually, for a caution, you'd have to go into custody to receive this officially, and sign that you accept the caution. This is then on your PNC record.
Sounds like you have just had a verbal warning and at best, your details recorded in an officers notebook and on the incident log

watcherintherye · 10/08/2022 15:10

I don’t know, but wouldn’t an official warning/caution be accompanied by some paperwork? I would have thought you wouldn’t be in any doubt that one had been issued. This sounds more like the police advising you to leave to diffuse the situation?

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Worriedbsl · 10/08/2022 15:11

@MuthaHubbard what’s a verbal warning? Is that on my record or on a dbs check? I’m worried it will show up somewhere even though the incident itself was something and nothing!

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Johnnysgirl · 10/08/2022 15:14

It was a "move along now", not a caution Confused. You can't really think this will show on a DBS check?

Worriedbsl · 10/08/2022 15:15

@Johnnysgirl i don’t know hence why I’ve asked. Never been involved with police before.

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vodkaredbullgirl · 10/08/2022 15:15

It was a warning.

MuthaHubbard · 10/08/2022 15:17

As in, they've just asked you to leave and said not to go back or something similar.
Nothing would be recorded anywhere that would affect a dbs check etc - it would just be in the initial call made by him to say 'please ask @Worriedbsl to leave'.
Anything more than that, they would have told you and you'd have some paperwork/signed to say you accept the caution

Worriedbsl · 10/08/2022 15:17

@MuthaHubbard so it’s not a warning either then?

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Johnnysgirl · 10/08/2022 15:19

Not an official warning, no.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/08/2022 15:20

You were asked to leave, which you did nothing else.

MuthaHubbard · 10/08/2022 15:22

My definition of a warning - they told you to leave and warned you not to go back as it could then be taken further. They will have probably worded it similar within the incident log
I probably should have described it more as a telling off/telling you to move along

Johnnysgirl · 10/08/2022 15:22

Seriously, op, calm down. You have nothing to worry about if there's nothing more to this story.

Worriedbsl · 10/08/2022 15:26

@Johnnysgirl no there’s nothing else to it. Im just a huge worrier!

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Divebar2021 · 10/08/2022 15:31

It’s fine. Just put future communication about the jewellery in writing rather than going around there

Zibbydib · 10/08/2022 15:33

It’s not an official warning. To have it recorded on any system they will have had to take your name, DOB, address from you

MrsGarethSouthgate · 10/08/2022 15:35

I’m a DS in the police - this was neither a warning or caution, you don’t need to worry.

Worriedbsl · 10/08/2022 15:39

@MrsGarethSouthgate thanks, that’s reassuring. Have been so anxious about it.

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Georgeskitchen · 10/08/2022 15:46

Sounds more like "advice"
I wouldn't worry.
Hope you can resolve the jewellery issue amicably

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