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Driving styles across UK motorways

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Offandonagain · 09/08/2022 21:15

I drove from Cumbria to Canterbury today. I live in Cumbria and use the M6 often to visit family in the NW.

I am a happy confident driver and happy to drive until and down the M6 knowing how to read the road and judge other driver’s manoevres.

The M1 and M25 on the other hand!!! I just could ‘t figure out what drivers were supposed to be doing or not!… It’s like there’s completely different rules down there!

M1 lorries constantly overtaking each other and holding up the other lanes.

M25 very regular undertaking and weaving that I had to keep and eye on all 4 lanes at all times, not knowing where cars were going to appear from!… Right up people’s backsides. Going way too fast for the conditions. It was 4pm and pretty busy!

I actually thought my family were going to die today…. The traffic slowed to 40 and I saw a car in my rear view flying towards me, swerved so not to go in to the back of me but miss judged a car in the outside lane, so swerved again behind me and dodged me by under taking… toppling and sliding about. He then gained control and off he went weaving through the traffic in front like nothing had happened. Where as I was in shock and spent the next 20 miles or so shaking!

I’ve got to drive 6 hours through France tomorrow and I’m now dreading it!
Then there’s the bloody return journey through the UK south again! 😫

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DeadRight · 09/08/2022 23:05

I like the M1. I don’t find it too bad at all.

The M25 is savage, though. When I was a new driver I used to arrive from journeys on it with chronic neck ache and exhaustion from the sheer stress of the aggressive driving. You get used to it, though.

Have you ever driven on the motorways around Rome? Fucking hell, the tailgating is insane. Cars driving inches away from each other at high speed. My heart nearly gave out,

lot123 · 09/08/2022 23:08

Have you ever driven on the motorways around Rome? Fucking hell, the tailgating is insane. Cars driving inches away from each other at high speed. My heart nearly gave out,

Yes, a couple of weeks ago. Our minibus driver was shooting along at high speed while filling in an online form on his phone.

I'm not sure whether the rules on mobile phone use are different in Italy but I was seriously relieved when we got to our destination.

MrsMoastyToasty · 09/08/2022 23:11

We regularly make the trip from Bristol to Glasgow. You can bet your bottom dollar that someone will cut across 4 lanes going into the M4/M5 interchange at Almondsbury because they haven't read the signs for the last couple of miles. Same going into the narrow bit before the M5/M6 interchange.
We tend to find that drivers on the M74 keep below the speed limit.

NRogers · 09/08/2022 23:22

If you're getting undertaken then you're driving badly.

M25 daily driver here.

I'll always do what I can to go around and cross back to the correct lane. But 4/5 times the twat in the 3rd lane is oblivious to all the shit they're causing in their wake and don't take the hint to move over themselves.

Taxi drivers around the airports seem to be some of the worst offenders.

amicissimma · 09/08/2022 23:44

Those of you singing the praises of driving in France have surely not driven on the Peripherique, specially in the rush hour.

But I must agree with the PPs' comments on the motorways outside Rome. I've no idea where because I didn't dare peep out between my fingers. Our driver was doing 150kph and texting. We were in a Multipla so two of my family were in the front. Not that it was much better behind the driver where I could see what he was doing, what speed he was going and where he was, and wasn't, looking.

Makes the M25 positively relaxing.

balalake · 10/08/2022 06:50

French drivers are terrible. They are consistently terrible, so you can to an extent anticipate what idiocy one will do next.

There seem fewer middle lane hoggers. An exception to the general belief you should not 'snitch' on people would go out of the window if you could report middle lane hoggers with dashcam evidence, and know they could end up in court and possibly be banned.

RampantIvy · 10/08/2022 07:01

M1 lorries constantly overtaking each other and holding up the other lanes.

The A1 and A19 are particularly bad for that.

itsgettingweird · 10/08/2022 07:06

I've always hated the M3.

The last year or so because my ds is national level at his sport now I've travelled a lot.

Yes to the M1. I'm not even convinced the lorries look when pulling out. But I think because it's a lot more industrial I'm just not use to so many lorries which also took me by surprise.

I call the A34 a lorry park but the M1 was something else!

However the M1 has great cameras and they work so speed wasn't as much as an issue as the M27 near me and less weaving in and out I thought.

What I'm finding more and more and commented to ds on it is the number of cars now a lot of motorways are 4 lanes in lane 3 doing 60.

So we are travelling lane 2 at 70 past those going 60mph in lane 1.

Then we have to pull out and around a car chugging along on a Sunday drive and back in again. Add in all the other cars having to do this or slow in lane 3 (when they're already speeding as they are passing the 70mph lane).

I can see how pile ups happen.

itsgettingweird · 10/08/2022 07:09

Spaghag · 09/08/2022 21:39

Have you ever tried the M42 around Birmingham?

I used to regularly drive to Exeter down the M5 which I never had an issue with. Unfortunately the quickest way for me to get to the M5 is via the M42.

The driving "style" shall we say is unique.

I've never found that a problem.

I've gone south coast to Birmingham a few times this year.

giffyg · 10/08/2022 07:17

We drove on the M3 & M4 yesterday for the first time in years. It was amazing, largely I think because of very few lorries. all the cars were in the inside lane driving as they should.

One thing I've noticed more & more is someone speeding driving up the arse of someone in the over taking lane, not giving them anytime to move in.

giffyg · 10/08/2022 07:20

M25 not too bad for us, yes lots of shit driving but whenever I use it, it's always so congested that you drive at a snail pace.

somewhereovertherain · 10/08/2022 07:24

Octomore · 09/08/2022 21:55

Tbh it depresses me that such a high proportion of British motorway drivers are so woefully inept. Other countries manage it, why not us?

across most areas of life we are inept.

Driving in europe is a breeze.

why do we bother with 4 lanes on the M6 when for most of it drivers only seem to use two?

live in Cumbira going north is a breeze south is fucking awful drove to Nottingham on Monday.

SaintHelena · 10/08/2022 07:29

I think the driving is much better than it used to be pre speed cameras.

I remember a phase of cars shooting straight onto middle or even fast lane when joining the motorway - hardly see it now. Orcars doing 100 up the fast lane.

lot123 · 10/08/2022 07:33

One thing I've noticed more & more is someone speeding driving up the arse of someone in the over taking lane, not giving them anytime to move in.

I hate this, it's very dangerous. Unless you're totally inept, you can see in your rear mirror when you need to move over. Giving them one second to pull over because you're up their back end makes accidents far more likely.

I'd rather be undertaken than that. I confess I'm somewhat of the view that if you can't beat them, join them as far as occasional undertaking goes on the M25. If I can undertake the middle lane hogger in the slow lane, where I have the hard shoulder as a back up (if it's clear), I can't always be bothered to pull out two lanes to overtake them.

I know it's wrong but it's become common practice on the M25 when there's heavy traffic,

YourUserNameMustBeAtLeast3Characters · 10/08/2022 07:40

M25 I’m fine with. Usually going too slow plus speed cameras mean it’s relatively controlled, other than when everyone gets all excited when it all opens out around Heathrow. As it’s often one speed though you have to assume every lane is used for over/undertaking.

M4 fine, unimaginative driving. Undertaking happens but DH is a middle lane hogger so that’s understandable (me: “what’s wrong with the inside lane?” Him: “that little spec in the far distance is a lorry I’ll have to overtake in 7 minutes time”)

M40 and M42 on the other hand… the speed!

lot123 · 10/08/2022 07:45

I also sometimes undertake by two lanes to make a point. Hello Mr Lane 3 Hogger, look I can undertake you in Lane 1 as both of the inside lanes are totally empty and yet you still insist on sitting there.

It's a rare occurrence to manage that on the M25 though.

BonnesVacances · 10/08/2022 07:47

Doesn't much of the M25 have variable speed limits though so it operates like the US highways? Tbh I never know what areas are variable speed limit, so I tend to still overtake on the right anyway. But I think the stretches that have the speed limit signs above each lane are the ones where each lane works independently of the others and you can overtake or undertake.

giffyg · 10/08/2022 07:48

I see not just middle lane hoggers but fast lane hoggers, I think many people hate moving.

Thejugglestruggle · 10/08/2022 07:49

100% agree.
Not sure about the M1 but I just figure out a different route rather than use the M25. I'm happy enough driving on the M40, M4, M5 and M3 pretty regularly.

Bert2020 · 10/08/2022 07:52

DH was raised near the M6 and used it regularly until he moved south age around 25, he always comments on the difference in driving. I hate driving the M25 for awful driving, the zigzag style you mentioned scares me. The M3 is a nicer calmer motorway for sure and infinitely better as you leave London, you feel as though the spring tightens the closer you are to London.

JellyfishandShells · 10/08/2022 07:56

MakingNBaking · 09/08/2022 21:50

The M25 is a law unto itself.
The volume of traffic can make it difficult to move out from the inside lane when you need to, and you frequently need to as that lane so often turns into an "off" lane. Therefore people tend to drive in the second lane out as if that is the inside lane and move over when their junction comes up. So that's why you often see undertaking.
And sometimes nervous drivers and M25newbies just 'find' themselves in the third lane out and they're driving along panicking because they can't move over, and they can't even remember how they ended up out there. Then other drivers come up close behind them to try to encourage them to take the plunge and MOVE OVER but it just panics them more.
It's a jungle out there.

This is accurate. I assume the OP took the anti-clockwise route from the M1 to Kent: the section of road from J16 (M40) to J12 (M3) past the Heathrow junctions can seem a bit hairy if you aren’t used to it. It’s a regular route of mine and I find it fine but that’s because I know the rhythms of it, know when it’s going to slow for no apparent reason or where people panic because realise that they are entirely in the wrong lane for their exit. Past J11 ( when you can get past, that truly is the site of sheer weight of traffic clogs) it is pretty much plain sailing.

It’s a heavy traffic area, with a concentration of off and on, because it has 3 major motorway intersections plus Heathrow plus local traffic crossing the Thames and avoiding local pinch points.

Glittertwins · 10/08/2022 07:59

M1 and M25 have got particularly bad for lane hogging with people totally oblivious to the fact that they should pull back over to the left if they are not overtaking anything. I admit I have undertaken these kind of people because I have not actually changed my speed or lane to do this / been unable to pull out around them without heavy braking (I'm doing 65-70, they're doing 50-55).
The French motorways were different in that people only stayed out if they were overtaking and then pulled back in, even to pull out 1 min later again. However as we got further south this time, attitudes changed and people were not pulling back over. The worst I saw was a young chap in an old BMW come flying past our lane, onto the hard shoulder to undertake and then back into the busy traffic. I've seen this on the m1 but never France before

stillherenow · 10/08/2022 08:03

To be fair it's not safe to drive on the left (or middle often!) on the m1 due to all the lorries pulling in and out with no notice. And the far left lane on m25 is mainly a departure lane, so anyone who knows that motorway won't be using that . I find the M25 ok as most people are far more aware due to all the undertaking and lane switching that goes on!

MackenCheese · 10/08/2022 08:14

Happy travels in France, OP! I know that's not the point of this thread and it'll be too late now, but next time if you buy in advance one of those little transponder tags that go on the inside of your windscreen, the toll roads in France will be even easier. We usually have one and it charges your linked credit card at the tolls, so you don't have to worry about paying from a RH drive car, or running out of change (cash). Bon voyage!

twilightcafe · 10/08/2022 09:36

The M40 is mostly fine except for two blackspots: where it connects with the M25 which panics drivers who have left it too late to get into the right lane.
The worst is Junction 9 for Bicester. Don't know what it is about this spot, but there are always accidents here.