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What thrifty tips do you NOT recommend?

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ArcheryAnnie · 08/08/2022 06:28

There's been discussion on other threads about some "thrifty tips" which don't seem all that sensible, like rinsing the sauce off spaghetti hoops to reuse the cooked pasta (wastes sauce and calories), or boiling soap to make shower gel (wastes electricity and soap - better just use the soap bar). What other thrifty tips have you either invented or tried, that you would warn other people off?

Here's mine: people have said a pinch of cheap curry powder helps elevate all kinds of dishes, including baked beans, tinned tomatoes, etc, and helps ring the changes in a monotonous diet. Here's what curry powder doesn't elevate, kids: porridge oats. Many, many years ago (pre DS), desperate for something other than plain porridge made with water, which had formed the bulk of our diet all week, we tried currying the porridge with an onion. Now, if I make or buy terrible food, I'll still usually eat it anyway, and just determine not to buy or cook it again. Not so this: oats, curry power and the onion all wasted. Don't ever repeat my mistake!

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VanillaImpulse · 09/08/2022 08:42

HelloAllll · 08/08/2022 07:20

Shopping at aldi/lidl instead of Sainsburys. I honestly find Sainsburys (now they are price matching on a lot of things) no/minimally more expensive than aldi and the quality of the food is so much better/fresher/has longer dates

So not true, I got a few items in sainsburys yesterday and was shocked at some of the prices. Went to Lidl later that day and it was a LOT cheaper, eg. Mini marshmallows 95p instead of £2(!) and caster sugar was £1.90 in Sains for 1kg and it was about £1.30 ish in Lidl. They might price match on a few basics but other things are a lot more to make up for it.

Natsku · 09/08/2022 09:08

C8H10N4O2 · 09/08/2022 08:34

The key word was "budget". Its partly about the quality. Frankly the most useful thing you can donate to a foodbank is money - let them buy what people need and as far as possible what they want.

If you don't want to donate money then check from the local foodbank list and yes tins/jars have a long life and can be very useful but does it have to be the cheapest tins availalble (which was no name spaghetti hoops and non name mushy peas for a long while, I've not looked recently)? Better tins of decent pulses, beans, veg, fish were occasionally donated but buried under cheap hoops with minimal nutritional value.

However that wasn't my issue - my issue was people sneering at recipes designed to give people who have zero choices some ideas to vary the dreaded spaghetti hoops and other repeating cheap items, especially when trying to get the kids to eat the only food you have available (its a myth that hungry kids will eat anything)

Its rare that they have a foodbank collection where I live (as they mostly use what supermarkets donate) but when they do I always put in gluten free stuff as I remember the one time I was needing that extra help, my income support was delayed and all my social worker could suggest was joining the bread queue but I didn't go because I knew it would be pointless, it was literally a bread queue and you'd get bags of bread and other baked goods so I knew I wouldn't be able to eat any of it.

picklemewalnuts · 09/08/2022 10:14

ClaryFairchild · 09/08/2022 00:01

I am utterly bemused by the idea that being thrifty is only for those in the bare bones of their arse....

I've been there, and I was living frugally, just to survive. I'm now in the incredibly privileged position of not paying rent which gives me the opportunity of saving to buy a house- so I am living thriftily (granted not frugally though) but have a pot of money that I can access if it means it will save me money in the medium term.

I surely can't be the only one that has a savings pot for a specific target who would like to get there as quickly as possible??!!

Of course thriftiness isn't only for bones of their arse people. I'm thrifty too partially because I'm accustomed to it from hard times, Eco considerations and generally dislike waste.
But some of the 'tips' are only for use when desperate- like rinsing sauce off tinned spaghetti hoops.
Sneering at those because they are yuck or stupid (as some have) means you aren't that level of desperate- bones of the arse desperate.

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picklemewalnuts · 09/08/2022 10:24

I curled my lip at the donated tinned goblin pies, tinned hamburgers in lard... people who knew corrected me. They are popular with clients because they are high calorie, precooked, and the fat can be used on other things- bread and dripping etc. Those donating them clearly knew far better than I what would be useful to the clients.

rookiemere · 09/08/2022 11:11

I donate the pre made up bags specifically for the purpose from Morrisons.

I don't actually pay much attention to what's inside as I assume- perhaps wrongly- that they have liaised with the charity and know which food donations are appropriate.

Hoppinggreen · 09/08/2022 11:35

rookiemere · 09/08/2022 11:11

I donate the pre made up bags specifically for the purpose from Morrisons.

I don't actually pay much attention to what's inside as I assume- perhaps wrongly- that they have liaised with the charity and know which food donations are appropriate.

These are really good.
I rarely go to Morrison’s as there isn’t one close to me but if I do I always do this

PriamFarrl · 09/08/2022 11:36

VanillaImpulse · 09/08/2022 08:42

So not true, I got a few items in sainsburys yesterday and was shocked at some of the prices. Went to Lidl later that day and it was a LOT cheaper, eg. Mini marshmallows 95p instead of £2(!) and caster sugar was £1.90 in Sains for 1kg and it was about £1.30 ish in Lidl. They might price match on a few basics but other things are a lot more to make up for it.

It really depends on what you are buying.
Decades ago when I was on a very tight budget a lot of the things I would buy were actually cheaper in Waitrose than Asda. That’s because I was vegetarian, which was not nearly as mainstream as it is now, and things like cous-cous, butternut squash and pesto were harder to come by.

WinterDeWinter · 09/08/2022 13:30

SaintHelena · 08/08/2022 11:27

Wash your hair in the bath and use a bowl filled with water from the tap to rinse it. Done.
Or in the past we would wash it in the bathroom sink. Fill sink dunk in hair lather rinse in water. refill sink a couple of times and use a plastic cup or similar to rinse over head.
This seemed to make your hair extra silky - something to do with tipping your head upside down and so giving the underneath hair a good wash and rinse.

I always rinse my shampoo'd hair in the bath and it is shiny and lovely <flicks>

Weightlossanne · 09/08/2022 14:54

Our local Asda were giving out a list of items requested by the local food banks which I found useful.

apintortwo · 09/08/2022 15:34

I think finding my plumbing skills in time for my 70th birthday might be a bit late but still worth it. I felt ridiculously proud of myself.

That's impressive!

Sartre · 09/08/2022 15:55

Aldi/lidl are significantly cheaper than any other supermarket and it’s pointless trying to argue otherwise, especially when comparing to sainsburys which is one of the more expensive supermarkets. It’s a shame aldi aren’t online fully yet because I’d love to do a comparison website with aldi, there’s no way you’d ever spend more in aldi than in a bigger supermarket like sainsburys. The great thing about aldi is the fact their own brand stuff is just as good as branded stuff, if not better sometimes. Other supermarkets value ranges tend to be tasteless and shit. I like the fact I can safely buy a tin of beans for like 30p in aldi and I know they’ll taste great, a 30p tin of value beans from sainsburys (actually bet they cost more than 30p!) will taste like crap. No real argument to be had there, sainsburys will never be cheaper than aldi!

ancientgran · 09/08/2022 15:59

apintortwo · 09/08/2022 15:34

I think finding my plumbing skills in time for my 70th birthday might be a bit late but still worth it. I felt ridiculously proud of myself.

That's impressive!

Thank you.

I think going to a plumbers merchant and getting some advice is well worth it.

Sartre · 09/08/2022 16:00

VanillaImpulse · 09/08/2022 08:42

So not true, I got a few items in sainsburys yesterday and was shocked at some of the prices. Went to Lidl later that day and it was a LOT cheaper, eg. Mini marshmallows 95p instead of £2(!) and caster sugar was £1.90 in Sains for 1kg and it was about £1.30 ish in Lidl. They might price match on a few basics but other things are a lot more to make up for it.

You’re absolutely right, it’s the same in any of the bigger supermarkets. Morrisons seems to be one of the worst for it, their cheapest squash in my local store is 85p for 1L, I get 1.5L from aldi for 89p. We get through a lot of squash so that sort of thing makes a difference to us.

choosername1234 · 09/08/2022 16:09

Charity shops are not always cheaper, in London some charity shops charge £5-6 for a primark t-shirt. £15 for a jumper is not unusual

masterblaster · 09/08/2022 17:50

Boiling a chicken carcass after eating all of the chicken is a LOT cheaper than buying stock.

However, if you don't know how to do gardening, it is an expensive hobby - nothing more.

ReneBumsWombats · 09/08/2022 17:55

masterblaster · 09/08/2022 17:50

Boiling a chicken carcass after eating all of the chicken is a LOT cheaper than buying stock.

However, if you don't know how to do gardening, it is an expensive hobby - nothing more.

But don't you have to have it on the hob for hours, using gas, along with fresh vegetables that you then discard?

BrionyofNazareth · 09/08/2022 18:00

Don't drive any distance for cheap fuel until you've done the maths. You have to be saving a lot to make the extra mileage and the time worthwhile.

rookiemere · 09/08/2022 18:10

BrionyofNazareth · 09/08/2022 18:00

Don't drive any distance for cheap fuel until you've done the maths. You have to be saving a lot to make the extra mileage and the time worthwhile.

On a related note. It's often cheaper to pay the delivery charge if you're buying something than collecting it. If you work out the cost per mile of driving - and that's without including anything for depreciation- £2.50 to save a 10 mile round trip is a bargain.

ancientgran · 09/08/2022 18:10

Sartre · 09/08/2022 16:00

You’re absolutely right, it’s the same in any of the bigger supermarkets. Morrisons seems to be one of the worst for it, their cheapest squash in my local store is 85p for 1L, I get 1.5L from aldi for 89p. We get through a lot of squash so that sort of thing makes a difference to us.

i find the same although it is Lidl for me. Such a revelation when it opened about 3 years ago and I suddenly had a supermarket I could walk to and it was cheap. Unfortunately I like their bakery which isn't such a good thing to have in walking distance.

I keep my online shopping with Sainsburys going as it was a God send in lockdown and I don't want to go on the naughty list so I do a £40 shop every couple of weeks but I am really careful about the prices and some things I just won't get there. It often looks like I'm only buy stuff on offer.

I've found the fruit and veg different to others as it is Sainsbury's that seems to have the rotten fruit and veg, the stuff from Lidl is great but I understand that varies alot.

VickyEadieofThigh · 09/08/2022 18:57

Kanaloa · 08/08/2022 06:59

I saw someone asking for tips on washing at the sink to save money on showering. The tips involved buckets/tubs of water and multiple flannels. I would think any money saved would be negligible when weighed up against the extra hot washes for the flannels.

Ah, but get a very large plastic bowl in your shower cubicle, stand in it and shower yourself wet, catching the water. Switch off shower, use flannel or other scrubby thingy and soap to wash yourself. Use plastic cup to rinse yourself off. Saves loads of water and power.

ArcheryAnnie · 09/08/2022 19:21

@picklemewalnuts goblin pies are, well, not excellent (I started to type excellent and had to delete it as patently untrue), but certainly enjoyable. They were our after-school tea when my mum was at work, in the jurassic era when I was a latchkey kid. 10 p for a little tin of mystery meat and rubbery "pastry" that nonetheless hit the spot!

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myfaceismyown · 09/08/2022 19:30

RJnomore1 · 08/08/2022 09:23

I think there are two groups of posts on here - one for people who have options but are economising and one for people who don’t.

”how is it cheaper to buy stock” it’s cheaper because in asda 12 stock cubes are 60p and you don’t need to have bought a chicken in the first place. Nor do you need hours of electricity and hopefully extra veg just to produce an ingredient.

IF you have all of those things already of course it costs more to buy stock cubes in addition and bin the carcass. But is it so hard to understand that that’s out if reach for many people?

The whole point of making your own stock is to use every bit of the meat you have cooked. Don't waste anything. Or "waste not, want not" as my DF used to say. No one is suggesting you go out and buy a chicken just to boil it up to make stock!
if you are roasting a chicken/beef/lamb have it hot day 1, cold day 2 then instead of binning the carcase you pop it in a pan and bring to boil with whatever veg scraps you have or any manky looking veg... You then have options depending on what you have in your home. If you are cooking something else in the oven you can put the covered pan or casserole dish in with that at the same time. If you can afford the luxury of a slow cooker put it in that. if you have a haybox, improvised or otherwise, use that. Once its had a good old simmer away you can strain it off, pick out the leftover bits of meat ( often a surprisingly large amount) to use in another dish and freeze the resultant stock or make it into a cheap and easy soup with some lentils.
Its only costing you a small amount of your time, is delicious and nutritious. Probably little more effort than putting it in the bin. I cant believe anyone thinks it is expensive - its free food!

ancientgran · 09/08/2022 19:32

The only goblin pies I've ever heard of were in Harry Potter I think.

supersop60 · 09/08/2022 19:42

Hollyhocksarenotmessy · 08/08/2022 07:37

Showers are not always more efficient for water and boiler. Stand under a decent powered shower for 10 minutes to wash and then shampoo and Condition your hair? An average sized bath often uses less hot water. Try sticking the plug in next time you shower to see.

I put the plug in, wash and condition hair etc. The level rarely gets above my ankles. Having a shower is still more economical.

Kanaloa · 09/08/2022 19:50

VickyEadieofThigh · 09/08/2022 18:57

Ah, but get a very large plastic bowl in your shower cubicle, stand in it and shower yourself wet, catching the water. Switch off shower, use flannel or other scrubby thingy and soap to wash yourself. Use plastic cup to rinse yourself off. Saves loads of water and power.

So the water that’s run over you before you’ve washed is then used to rinse you? I don’t know. How much money would that save to be worth having such a poor shower?

This is the thing for me - obviously I do get it if you’re on the very rock bottom and can’t afford to live, but for the average person I take ‘thrifty’ to mean little ways to save a bit more. I think if it actively damages your quality of life (having to rinse yourself with used water in the shower, not being able to afford a hot shower each day) then to me it’s not ‘thrifty’ it’s living in poverty. Maybe that’s just a difference in the way the word is used.

Another one I saw was ‘always adding an extra bread roll at the self checkout.’ So, stealing? Hardly a thrifty tip!