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Comforting books?

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tomissmymum · 30/07/2022 11:09

Had a horrendous few weeks, ‘lost’ my mum to a dementia diagnosis (early onset, she’s having a very rough time and declining very quickly) and then I’ve also just lost my granny, who was very like a second mum to me in lots of ways . She died very suddenly , funeral was yesterday .

(If any family use mumsnet that’s me outed, hello!)

I’ve been given book tokens from a very special friend and told to buy something I’d enjoy, but not sure where to start . I’ve done an English degree, I love reading but my head’s a bit of a mess just now . Would love something comforting and gentle .

Favourites are Jane Eyre and Rebecca . Also love Sylvia Plath, did my dissertation on her, but she’s a bit too depressing just now .

Usually go back to some of Cecelia Ahern’s earlier books and same with Lisa Jewell - not so keen on their later books . Ditto with Sophie Kinsella, liked the early shopaholic books . Also Sue Townsend . Anything with a bit of escapism/warmth and that can make me laugh .

Not into crime fiction or anything too bleak at the moment .

if anyone has any recommendations I’d hugely appreciate it!

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minuette1 · 30/07/2022 14:13

My comfort reading book is Perfectly Correct by Phillips Gregory.

Zott · 30/07/2022 14:15

Sorry for your loss. I third (?) the Cazalet Chronicles, and revisiting your childhood favourite books can be very comforting.

Riverlee · 30/07/2022 14:17

Came on to say Maeve Binchley as well. Currently reading one.

Also Lucinda Riley and Rhys Bowen books.

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Gingerbreadcandle · 30/07/2022 14:21

Any of the Trisha Ashley books, she has a lovely gentle and calming way of writing with easy to read stories, definately would be a go to for comfort and to take my mind of things.

NickyOy · 30/07/2022 14:25

The secret Life of Albert Entwistle is really good, about a postman reaching retirement age who decides to open himself to possibilities after living a life avoiding people. Really comforting to and hearwarming

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 30/07/2022 14:26

Not so much comfort as escapism but I've found the Taylor Jenkins Reid books total page turners

SummerLobelia · 30/07/2022 14:27

My favourite book is Madensky Square by Eva Ibbotson. It is just lovely and beautifully crafted.

www.goodreads.com/book/show/1339165.Madensky_Square

BloodyHellKen · 30/07/2022 14:34

I'm sorry you're having such a hard time OP. I recommend the Number 1 Ladies Detective Agency series. I know you said no crime but it's not that sort of grim crime, it's more about human nature. I let my young teenage daughter read them.
They are very readable and escapist as they are set in Botswana and have lovely descriptions of the landscape.
Most importantly everything usually works out for the best which I find quite comforting 😌

tomissmymum · 30/07/2022 14:39

Riverlee · 30/07/2022 14:17

Came on to say Maeve Binchley as well. Currently reading one.

Also Lucinda Riley and Rhys Bowen books.

Is Lucinda Riley the seven sisters books? (If I’ve got that right) . My granny was always on at me to read them, she loved them .

Thanks so, so much for all the recommendations Flowers, so much to look through 😊

I never thought of childhood books!, I’m sure I’ve got a couple of my mum’s Enid Blyton books here - that might be nice this afternoon . I’ve got a huge suitcase of stuff from my granny/mum’s houses to sift through but a bit wary of doing that, so it’ll be lovely to just sit and read for a bit !!

Will definitely give Maeve Binchy a go too . Thanks so much .

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SwelegantParty · 30/07/2022 14:40

Another vote for Rosamund Pilcher - The Shell Seekers or Coming Home in particular.

Agatha Christie is another I'd recommend, especially the Poirot and Marple books.

Luckyboo · 30/07/2022 14:45

I love all the Joan Jonker books, nice easy, feel good read. Same for Trisha Ashley or Milly Johnson

BestIsWest · 30/07/2022 14:57

I’ve been going through something similar recently (and Rebecca is my favourite book too). These are what I’ve been reading over the last few months.
Persuasion
Rosamunde Pilcher
Marian Keyes
Bill Bryson (Down Under is my no 1 book when I can’t read anything else).
Ellie Griffiths’ Ruth Galloway books. These are crime but there is something comforting about them.

PeloAddict · 30/07/2022 15:01

A little princess is my comfort book
Agree with Enid blyton, and if you've got any of the chalet school books?

Malory towers is on iPlayer too if you fancy watching something, or all creatures great and small on my 5

Thornethorn · 30/07/2022 15:08

Elizabeth Goudge (Green Dolphin County) and DE Stevenson (Miss Buncle's Book, Mrs Tim).

LadyCampanulaTottington · 30/07/2022 15:13

Sorry for your loss x

Anything that Patricia Scanlon or Cathy Kelly have written. Hug in a book!!

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 30/07/2022 16:32

Several by Barbara Pym - light but literate IYKWIM. Set decades ago, so some are real period pieces now.

Crampton Hodnet (set in pre WW2 N Oxford, her funniest IMO)
Excellent Women
Some Tame Gazelle
Jane and Prudence

DelphiniumBlue · 30/07/2022 17:20

Sounds like you've had a tough time.
Cold Comfort Farm is very funny and well written, you might enjoy that.
I also read a couple of books by Hannah Rothschild recently, fun, well written and well plotted.
If you like history, the Chronicles of St Mary's have a feisty heroine and are entertaining and gripping.

Hbh17 · 30/07/2022 17:23

Definitely Elizabeth Jane Howard's Cazalet Chronicles.

Barbara Pym - dry sense of humour.

EF Delafield - Diary of a Provincial Lady

DonateBloodNCheckSmokeAlarms · 30/07/2022 17:29

Sorry to hear about your troubles.

I agree with pps - Bill Bryson - he does travel, science, autobiography, history. He is like a funny old friend.

Roald Dahl - Boy

BeBraveLittlePenguin · 30/07/2022 18:15

Death and life of Charlie St cloud.

TrashyPanda · 30/07/2022 18:30

Anything by Mary Stewart. A great writer. Some of her stories are in the same vein as Rebecca.
my favourite is Airs Above The Ground

my sympathies to you.

DonateBloodNCheckSmokeAlarms · 30/07/2022 22:57

There is a series of books called "Letters to the Editor" by the Daily Telegraph which is an easy read.
QI books are easy to dip in and out of with interesting facts.
I also like the BBC series of books "Grumpy old men" and "Grumpy old women"

CherrySocks · 30/07/2022 23:02

The Comfort Book - Matt Haig

Nat6999 · 30/07/2022 23:17

I read the Chalet School books, any WW2 romantic fiction, my favourite ones are The Waterway Girls by Milly Adams, The Shipyard Girls series by Nancy Revill & anything by Margaret Mayhew. I also love the Blue Doors books by Pamela Brown. I read an Enid Blyton book last week, The Secret Island & still enjoyed it as much as when I first read it as a 7 year old.

Mysteryuser · 30/07/2022 23:20

The Enchanted April by Elizabeth Von Arnim. All the best to you OP.

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