My EX married. It's been over between us for more than a decade. We were together for more than a decade before that. He never wanted to have children with me or marry me. The OW was pregnant (planned!) six months after our break up and now he married her.
The stupid thing is that I actually feel pissed off and I really shouldn't. I also have a child and I've been married to a nice man for over five years who generally has a more similar lifestyle as me. We're also richer than they are and have a nicer and detached house. I wouldn't want him back anyway. So what the hell is wrong with me that his marriage feels like a rejection all these years later? I'm bonkers, right?