Massive row with DH - hugs needed

[SunshineLollipopsAndRainbows]

Long story but something relatively small ended up in a huge row & basically I feel like shit. Virtual hugs will be very welcome. It will be sorted I’m sure but I might spend the night on the very edge of the bed 🤣🤣🤣

We’ve been there! Hugs, 💐 and 🍰 from me to you.
I hope you get it all sorted soon, it’s a rotten feeling!

Oh I hate when that happens.

One of the biggest arguments I ever had with DH (nearly ended in splitting up) was over cheese. I was sat there the rest of the night thinking "all of this over cheese????"

You'll be fine OP. Sending hugs

(((HUGS))))

I have a spare half a bed tonight if you want to sleep nearer the middle! I'm actually puppy sitting for a friend tonight, so puppy cuddles too if you want them & 6 other beds if my snoring bothers you!

I hope he has the sense to bring you breakfast in bed in the morning

life throws us all around sometimes, we can't always predict how things will pan out.
It leaves you wondering why you are with them, how you ended up here, but the truth is, this just IS life, and all it's crazy variables. We can't all be on the same page all of the time. We are all capable of fucking hideous unreasonable behaviour behind closed doors.

I've been there.
Eventually we just go to bed in a separate room and snore it off. It is often difficult in the heat of the moment to appreciate a good rest.

If this is occasional and there is no real issue or abuse, just give it time. It's hard, as sometimes we NEED to sort it NOW! But a bit of space to to rest and think often heals this for us.

Small stuff can meet big stuff real easy.

And depending how it happened (as none of us here know!), maybe you bring him breakfast in bed in the morning

Sorry folks - completely forgot I posted so have only just read the replies. We had a couple of good chats the next day & it’s ok. He was a complete arse but equally I pursued him, which he absolutely can’t deal with & I know that but still do it! We’ve been together 21 years, married for just over 20, but are sometimes still really rubbish at communicating! Thanks for the replies ❤️