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Would you take new boyfriend to a wedding when a ex boyfriend is there?

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alwaysbesmiley · 22/07/2022 18:43

Well I say new boyfriend ...we've been together a year now.
We met 6 months after my narcissist (a million percent narcissist) discarded me.
I'm really nervous about seeing him as he was mentally abusive/made me feel worthless/got off on making me cry etc
When he discarded me he made sure he told me he was with a new woman.

Anyway I'm at a wedding next weekend,he will be there.
Do I take my new boyfriend along or will it be too awkward?
Part of me wants to show him I've moved on and I'm happy but another part of me worries I might feel uncomfortable as he put me through hell.

What would you do?
I honestly am over him but the part of me who was a shell after all he did to me..kind of wants to show him he didn't break me.

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PrezelwithMarmite · 22/07/2022 23:31

Yes!

MrsTerryPratchett · 23/07/2022 00:07

alwaysbesmiley · 22/07/2022 22:45

Yeah maybe the drinking isn't a good idea.
A few gins and I might get my Beyoncé head on...and nobody needs to see that do they Blush

I'm sure we'd love to see it! But your ex doesn't deserve it!

alwaysbesmiley · 23/07/2022 08:44

Isn't it crazy how you can let a ex who was a horrible human have so much power over your emotions
I keep asking myself why I'm so nervous
He should be nervous after his behaviour not me.

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