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Georgeskitchen · 16/07/2022 23:00

Who is old enough to remember 1976?
The never ending heatwave. I was 15 at the time. It was pretty boiling hot. Water shortages with stand pipes to get water.The government even had a drought minister!
Can't remember any hysteria,( no social media back then, thank god)
All I can remember, growing up in a famous holiday resort, was a great summer with fabulous weather for weeks on end. Probably one of the best years of my life.
Anyone relate?

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Benjispruce4 · 17/07/2022 16:01

Swear by not sweat !!

upinaballoon · 17/07/2022 16:14

I don't remember hysteria. I can't remember what the papers and TV said. I was an adult, in a temp stop-gap job in a little food factory. There wasn't any work to do in the garden because nothing grew. In my leisure time I sat outside and knitted a lacy green/blue top which was a pattern from Woman's Weekly. When rain eventually came it was a small amount and I stood outside and let it plop on my head. I did not realise in those days what a 'needed and wanted' commodity water is. There is a film called 'The Long, Hot Summer' and I use those words when I think of 1976 - the long, hot summer of 1976.

Plantstrees · 17/07/2022 16:25

I was a similar age to you and lived near the beach. I spent that summer in the sea every day and balmy evenings outside having barbeques with friends and family. It was one of the best summers ever as far as I was concerned.

andi62 · 17/07/2022 16:33

I was aged 13 in 1976. My wife was, in 1976, expecting her first child. Yep, we have quite an age gap!

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 17/07/2022 16:37

I remember it. I was 12 and got sunstroke in Ireland.

Very long and hot and fun. We didn’t have stand piles though. I would hate it now! Menopause + heat= itching😭

Benjispruce4 · 17/07/2022 16:39

Stand piles would be awful!😂

CarrotCakeMuffins · 17/07/2022 16:42

I was 4, I fell off my bike, and hit my head, had concussion as the ground was so hard (pre bike helmets of course) and spent a night in hospital.

MissyCooperismyShero · 17/07/2022 16:43

Yes we had stand pipes. I loved it. Fourteen and everything seems so exciting at that age.

Findingmypast · 17/07/2022 17:11

I already had twins (so a ‘teenage Lolita’, ‘gym slip mother’, and ‘out to wreck a man’s life’) but now 16, been 'made an honest woman' of, pregnant and living at the top of a big hill. Carrying the shopping back up it wasn’t fun.

We had a two roomed attic flat with ladder steps up from the 4th floor landing, and when the water pressure was reduced, us and the flats on the floor below suddenly had none, and the communal toilet and bathroom, only a trickle. It got nasty quickly.

No prams allowed on the landings or front entrance, no way of getting one up to flat, so it was homemade slings (lots of racist comments) which increased body heat for them and me, and trying to safely get babies, water, shopping et al up four flights of stairs, then our ladder steps.

Many on the hill lost their water to pressure drop, so we did get a stand pipe a few streets away a couple of weeks later, but by then no-one from the first three floors was talking to anyone higher, as we were blamed for the state of the toilet and them having to carry buckets of water (from their taps!) up to flush it...

A lot of my time was taken up with getting water and then getting more to make up for what I’d spilled.

We didn't have fridge, phone or washing machine, and disposable nappies weren't an option. Money spent on watered down thin bleach and white vinegar to soak nappies in. Husband kicking off about the smell and the heat, and spending most of his time at his mum's or pub. He did little but moan his way through it.

I feared my babies over heating, dehydrating, falling with them or dropping them through exhaustion. Scared I'd go into labor prematurely. But my biggest fear was my milk drying up.

Dust doesn't seem to get mentioned, but there was a lot of it.

The roads melting was a better part, I had pregnancy cravings for tar!

Had baby in hospital, but husband felt a maternity bra to be a 'waste of money', so I had a ‘binder’, which was basically luckless nurses having to wind and unwind yards of bandages round my breasts, every feed or every time I’d been leaked too much and been left too long. The binder got gross pretty quickly and attracted flies. The ladybirds were the nicer option.

People, especially women, were stoical in those days, and got on with a lot, but it was mainly because many had very little choice, and the pointlessness of saying anything was self-evident.
If Mumsnet had existed then, and we could have got unbiased advice, many of us might have had very different lives.

Kite22 · 17/07/2022 17:27

Human memories aren't very reliable though. You remember it as a super hot heatwave because it was at the time
But nowhere near as hot as we have now. These show the number of 'tropical nights' (above 20 degrees) in the UK.
As you can see, 1976 didn't actually involve that many days that were so hot you would've struggled to sleep at night

No. I am not obsessed with numbers. We remember it as a heatwave because we had weeks and weeks of beautiful sunshine. Not really interested in some individual days temperatures.

@endingintiers - chill out. this isn't a meteorological thread, it is a thread about how we remember that year, and for many, it was wonderful to have all those weeks of predictable good weather. I mean, clearly it wasn't for farmers / food production and people that managed water supplies etc, but those things don't really bother than many 10 - 15 yr olds.
How we manage 10 days or so of hot temperatures this year is completely different to "what was that wonderful Summer like from your perspective, which is what the OP has asked.

sueelleker · 17/07/2022 18:02

Freeasabird76 · 16/07/2022 23:07

I was born during that heatwave,my mum's been telling me all my life how horrendous it was carrying me at the end 😁😁

One of my nieces was born in the July. I remember my poor sister lying on the beach like a beached whale!

carbon60 · 17/07/2022 21:22

I was 19, working as a printer, even with the doors open it was boiling. The fumes were awful epecially when we were varnishing.Management allowed us minibreaks to get fresh air and cold drinks but it was hard slog.
We finished early on a friday so we used to load the motorbikes up and go camping on the coast.That was most weekends, it was a brilliant summer and when it broke there were massive thunderstorms.

JustDanceAddict · 17/07/2022 21:30

I was 5 so only very vaguely!
I don’t think was anywhere near those temps we’re gonna see in the next couple of days though.

Davros · 17/07/2022 23:25

I was 16, doing my O'Levels. I've got my diary from then and it does mention the heat a few times. We definitely knew it was hot and dry but I don't remember stand pipes except in the news. I went to school on the tube, it must have been horrible but we were young, we were more interested in boys and pop stars

userxx · 18/07/2022 07:32

@Findingmypast Hope your life got better, sounds like you've had your struggles.

BashfulClam · 26/01/2023 11:13

I wasn’t born but in Scotland it was probably still raining

Wheresthecheese · 26/01/2023 21:11

Georgeskitchen · 16/07/2022 23:00

Who is old enough to remember 1976?
The never ending heatwave. I was 15 at the time. It was pretty boiling hot. Water shortages with stand pipes to get water.The government even had a drought minister!
Can't remember any hysteria,( no social media back then, thank god)
All I can remember, growing up in a famous holiday resort, was a great summer with fabulous weather for weeks on end. Probably one of the best years of my life.
Anyone relate?

I was the same age. Yes, one of the best years of my life too. Happy days.

Wheresthecheese · 26/01/2023 21:20

Findingmypast · 17/07/2022 17:11

I already had twins (so a ‘teenage Lolita’, ‘gym slip mother’, and ‘out to wreck a man’s life’) but now 16, been 'made an honest woman' of, pregnant and living at the top of a big hill. Carrying the shopping back up it wasn’t fun.

We had a two roomed attic flat with ladder steps up from the 4th floor landing, and when the water pressure was reduced, us and the flats on the floor below suddenly had none, and the communal toilet and bathroom, only a trickle. It got nasty quickly.

No prams allowed on the landings or front entrance, no way of getting one up to flat, so it was homemade slings (lots of racist comments) which increased body heat for them and me, and trying to safely get babies, water, shopping et al up four flights of stairs, then our ladder steps.

Many on the hill lost their water to pressure drop, so we did get a stand pipe a few streets away a couple of weeks later, but by then no-one from the first three floors was talking to anyone higher, as we were blamed for the state of the toilet and them having to carry buckets of water (from their taps!) up to flush it...

A lot of my time was taken up with getting water and then getting more to make up for what I’d spilled.

We didn't have fridge, phone or washing machine, and disposable nappies weren't an option. Money spent on watered down thin bleach and white vinegar to soak nappies in. Husband kicking off about the smell and the heat, and spending most of his time at his mum's or pub. He did little but moan his way through it.

I feared my babies over heating, dehydrating, falling with them or dropping them through exhaustion. Scared I'd go into labor prematurely. But my biggest fear was my milk drying up.

Dust doesn't seem to get mentioned, but there was a lot of it.

The roads melting was a better part, I had pregnancy cravings for tar!

Had baby in hospital, but husband felt a maternity bra to be a 'waste of money', so I had a ‘binder’, which was basically luckless nurses having to wind and unwind yards of bandages round my breasts, every feed or every time I’d been leaked too much and been left too long. The binder got gross pretty quickly and attracted flies. The ladybirds were the nicer option.

People, especially women, were stoical in those days, and got on with a lot, but it was mainly because many had very little choice, and the pointlessness of saying anything was self-evident.
If Mumsnet had existed then, and we could have got unbiased advice, many of us might have had very different lives.

God that sounds appalling. I hope you divorced your useless husband as soon as you could.

Fordian · 26/01/2023 23:28

Cutting to the end- I was15 in '76. I recall the bloody brilliant thunderstorms that ended it!

Patineur · 27/01/2023 00:40

I was working in a 7th floor office which definitely proved that heat rises. I was on a princely wage of £25 a week and couldn't afford a holiday. I couldn't wait for it to be over.

Mother87 · 27/01/2023 00:40

I was 13 - and remember sitting lazing around parks & fields at weekends and it was long before ice cold drinks were easily available of course. Carrying water everywhere hadn't been inventedGrinand am sure my clothes were too warm and scratchy

mathanxiety · 27/01/2023 05:19

@Findingmypast

Shock

How has your life been since then?

Findingmypast · 27/01/2023 13:00

I’d like to say it was a happy ever after story, but we don't all get one. Sorry if my memories shock. I realize I’m a bit of an outlier on MN, but there are others too.

Some people just get born with low odds. I got born into a very low odds situation and would have had to have been a lot smarter and a lot luckier to do well out of it.

When you start out so very far behind the starting line, you spend a very long time just getting to where everyone else was as a starting point, without even knowing that’s what you’re doing.

If you finally make it to there, (many don't) you arrive damaged, with lots of holes in your development and knowledge, other peoples messed up ideas as your normal, and many opportunities already gone.

You now have to try and make the best of a bad situation, while trying to raise your children to have better lives than you’ve had. It’s been a constant battle just to give them a fairer start.

I worked very hard but always not been enough and too late, but I have had some joy out of life as well as difficulty.
I've been a fool to myself, but didn't have the knowledge or self worth to know how to do better. A lot of my life's been controlled by others.

I’m now someone MN would pour scorn and condemnation on for where I am, with little idea that they probably wouldn’t have done too well in exactly the same position and resources either.

Shockingly everyone I knew well in 1976, is now either dead, in and out of prison, or a long term prisoner, addict heading that way, long term MH patient, and or became a brood mare for adoption services. So while it’s a low bar by MN standards, and any future’s precarious, I’ve done an awful lot better than those I came up alongside.

Sorry, wish I could say something better, but rags to riches, and against the odds success stories, are IME far more the exception, than the norm.

Wheresthecheese · 27/01/2023 13:08

Findingmypast · 27/01/2023 13:00

I’d like to say it was a happy ever after story, but we don't all get one. Sorry if my memories shock. I realize I’m a bit of an outlier on MN, but there are others too.

Some people just get born with low odds. I got born into a very low odds situation and would have had to have been a lot smarter and a lot luckier to do well out of it.

When you start out so very far behind the starting line, you spend a very long time just getting to where everyone else was as a starting point, without even knowing that’s what you’re doing.

If you finally make it to there, (many don't) you arrive damaged, with lots of holes in your development and knowledge, other peoples messed up ideas as your normal, and many opportunities already gone.

You now have to try and make the best of a bad situation, while trying to raise your children to have better lives than you’ve had. It’s been a constant battle just to give them a fairer start.

I worked very hard but always not been enough and too late, but I have had some joy out of life as well as difficulty.
I've been a fool to myself, but didn't have the knowledge or self worth to know how to do better. A lot of my life's been controlled by others.

I’m now someone MN would pour scorn and condemnation on for where I am, with little idea that they probably wouldn’t have done too well in exactly the same position and resources either.

Shockingly everyone I knew well in 1976, is now either dead, in and out of prison, or a long term prisoner, addict heading that way, long term MH patient, and or became a brood mare for adoption services. So while it’s a low bar by MN standards, and any future’s precarious, I’ve done an awful lot better than those I came up alongside.

Sorry, wish I could say something better, but rags to riches, and against the odds success stories, are IME far more the exception, than the norm.

I actually admire you far more than someone who is a ‘success’ in terms of having loads of money and a great career. It’s harder to struggle through life against the odds and make it through than to be handed everything on a plate. Well done to you.

newtb · 27/01/2023 13:09

Yes, I was 20 and had a summer job at Cadbury's packing Christmas puddings of all things. Only part time and spent thé afternoons in the local outdoor pool.