My son is a fidget. He can't concentrate long and I find it hard to get through to him with discipline . I feel he just doesn't listen. We have a paediatrician appointment in January to see if adhd is an issue but in the meantime like some advice. How do I deal with lack of concentration? Is there a better way of taking to him to get through to him? I feel I've lost my patience at the moment and I hear myself just kind of snapping and getting irritated at him. I then feel horrible of course. I'm just very tired and finding it hard. He's a very lovely boy but has intense energy. I want to encourage his reading and motor skills as he's finding them difficult but again struggle to know the best way to get through to him.