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Greenorblues · 13/07/2022 11:01

Twenty years ago my life looked very different and was pretty chaotic in a lot of ways.

I owed a lot of money and moved around a lot but also ignored letters and phone calls and so on.

So I’ve had contact regarding some old debts from accounts from circa 2004-2006. There’s nothing on my credit file … would you bother to pay them?

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PolkaDotMankini · 13/07/2022 11:04

Yes. I wouldn't want that worry dragging along with me through life. Anyway, you owe it so you should pay it.

Kleptronic · 13/07/2022 11:07

Check if they are statue barred, depending on the type, if no payment/contact during 6 years you may not have to pay www.stepchange.org/debt-info/can-i-write-off-debt/statute-barred-debt.aspx

Kleptronic · 13/07/2022 11:13

I don't know why that's hidden, it's just a link to stepchange debt advice website on statue barring of certain types of debt over 6 years no contact. Meaning you cannot be pursued through court for them.

Greenorblues · 13/07/2022 11:26

I know, there’s nothing on my credit file and it makes no difference whether it’s paid or not. Purely a moral question.

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LavenderfortheBees · 13/07/2022 11:30

Can you afford to easily pay them? Would paying them mean you might struggle to heat the house or feed the children well this winter?

If I was comfortable and had 6 months expenses saved in an emergency fund then morally, paying might be the right thing. If not, prioritise your family.

Doingmybest12 · 13/07/2022 11:31

If you owe the money pay it. Yes it is a moral decision.

Greenorblues · 13/07/2022 11:39

I can’t really afford it. I probably could in small manageable amounts but then it would haunt me for probably ten years and also once I start to pay it it would go back on my credit file (I think) so am reluctant to engage for that reason too.

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LavenderfortheBees · 13/07/2022 11:55

Then leave it. Put your family first. The debt has almost certainly been written off by the company as a bad debt or sold on for a pittance. The people trying to get it from you now will be companies that buy debts for pennies then attempt to harass people into paying. If even a small percentage fall for it, they make a profit.

Leave it.

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