Accept mates rates?

[Devo1818]

Friend makes cakes as a small side business. I asked her to do my daughter's birthday cake through her business Instagram and she said yes. I know how much what I requested cost as it is on a price list. She messaged she could do it for me for half price - I guessing that would basically be cost. Not sure whether to accept the kind offer or just pay her full price anyway?

offer to split the difference?

If its a sideline rather than a full business I'd be OK. I prefer not to go with mates rates, I prefer not to use friends, it always worries me what would happen if I wasn't happy with their work.

I suppose I saw it as supporting her business over someone else's. Which suggests I should just pay the going rate. Maybe I'm overthinking it...

If you were prepared to pay full price/weren't expecting a discount, I would pay it. It's nice to support small businesses where we can especially in the current climate.

If you were expecting to pay full price then I think I'd pay it. I bet she will make sure it's done extra well for you

We've worked with lots of friends over the years, and don't accept mates rates. I wouldn't work for my employers for a reduced rate just because I know them, so don't expect friends to do the same

Also if you accept mates rates then I'd feel awkward asking them again.

If you're supporting her business then treat it as proper transaction and pay the going rate.

If she wants to do something nice for your daughters birthday then that's nice and generous of her but keep the cake as a normal commission.