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Am I weird for really enjoying going to school events?

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elliejjtiny · 11/07/2022 01:28

It was dc1's year 11 prom last week. Really amazing evening. I took so many photos, may have welled up a bit. Loads of other parents there to see the year 11's arrive plus quite a few grandparents, siblings etc. DS just had me as DH didn't want to go so he ended up looking after the younger dc at home.

DC4 had his school concert also last week. PIL were at our house visiting. I ask if they want to come but they both shudder and say they would rather chop their own arms off. Fine, it's not for everyone. DH and I go and I love it, dh not so much but dc4 is so happy to see us both.

Next week is dc2's end of year 9 celebration at school. Normally at the end of the year it's just the children getting special awards who go but for year 9 they all go and get a certificate for "graduating key stage 3". Dc1 didn't get one due to covid and dc2 is really excited about being the first of his siblings to do something for a change. DC2 excitedly told PIL about it and they did eye rolls and little comments about having "seen it all now" and "didn't bother with that in my day". I'm really looking forward to it and I'm so proud of dc2.

It makes me wonder if I'm really weird for loving this kind of thing? For context my dc all have SN and DC2 attempted suicide last year so I'm very appreciative of the things that a lot of parents might take for granted. I know it sounds dramatic but we are very lucky that dc2 is here to finish year 9.

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Sartre · 11/07/2022 13:51

Depends on the event. I like watching most school performances but find the harvest festival a drag, especially when the vicar is wheeled out at the end to do her speech.

I can’t stand Christmas / summer fair and sports day. Sports day is pointless, it always lasts for 2 hours and my DC is only involved in 2 mins of that 2 hours so I’m mostly standing around watching other people’s kids running around.

WimpoleHat · 11/07/2022 14:56

Snoopsnoggysnog · 11/07/2022 13:24

But really who hates watching their own DC perform?

I remember the year my DD, who hates drama and anything like that, didn’t have a lesson for 3 weeks because the whole thing was devoted to “the school play”. She hated doing it. So no, I didn’t enjoy watching her do it because I knew the background to it. All for the parents.

DreamingofItaly2023 · 11/07/2022 15:20

I love them too, I absolutely die with pride every time.

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saraclara · 11/07/2022 15:37

I loved them. I enjoyed seeing my DDs in that different context, and seeing how hard they tried and how proud they were.

I do think that mortar boards for children leaving nursery is ridiculous though. For goodness sake... That would actually spoil the event for me. Let kids be kids and let graduating with a degree actually be meaningful and have it's own symbols. Not everything has to be turned into an insta opportunity.

riesenrad · 11/07/2022 15:58

HoneyFlowers · 11/07/2022 09:44

I love all events like that. I find it odd that parents put their kids school reports in bin straight away!

Do they? I still have all of mine, and the ones of ds' that were written (the rest are attachments on emails).

I didn't like school events due to having to run the gauntlet of (a few) bitchy school mums but the actual events were quite cute. Not sure about attending a Y9 graduation though, at ds' school that was for the kids themselves. I didn't realise adults went to proms either! The photos I've seen of daughters in dresses etc tend to be in the garden before they go.

Backtothefuture1908 · 11/07/2022 16:02

This is a lovely post ❤

I love going to my children's school events. My husband not so much. Haha.

underneaththeash · 11/07/2022 16:07

I don’t mind most of them - pate t’d evenings, sports day, concerts…but speech day is on a Saturday in July during the day and I can always think of several hundred things I’d rather be doing. Far too long and dull.

elliejjtiny · 15/07/2022 13:52

Just thought I would update to say that DS2 got 4 certificates and a badge for his blazer last night. Very proud mum over here.

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turquoisebuttons · 15/07/2022 13:55

I love them too, but particularly plays/concerts etc. My mum will happily attend as well if there is a space going spare!

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