A perfect gentleman or just not interested?

[SnowyLamb]

I've been out on a social thing today. About a dozen of us went to do activity and then had a pub lunch. After lunch people drifted off but me and one man stayed until 8pm.. Both absolutely sozzled by this point. We had a good day, shared lots of stuff. He actually cried real tears when telling me about his crappy parents.

We're both middle aged and fairly recently single. I'm a couple of years older.

We got the train home together, he was fun and courteous. Then we said goodbye, swift peck on the cheek.

Nothing there?

So, are you thinking about texting him?

So this man that you don't fancy and who has a lot of red flags (though apart from being mid-divorce you don't say what these are) treated you like a friend, and although you think of him as a friend, you think he should have behaved more like some of your more sleazy acquaintances?

Is that it?

I know I'm old and probably out of touch, but in my world, not pouncing on a new acquaintance with a view to sex would be a good thing, and oversharing and inability to hold one's liquor would count as bad things.

I wasn't expecting him to "pounce" I thought he might say something like lovely day, must do it again.

I don't think he overshared. There was a brief moment when I thought blimey I wasn't expecting this, but it passed very quickly.

I am used to drunk men being a bit over familiar. He wasn't, to the extent that it felt quite unusual.

I worked in a high pressure male dominated industry for most of my career. The men were perfectly professional at work, but after a drink, when letting off steam.

^ you have low standards! And he was over familiar, just not in a sexual way.
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