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How can it be 10 years?

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darumafan · 01/07/2022 16:28

Not really sure why I am posting this but it will be 10 years on Sunday since my wonderful, funny, gorgeous, infuriating and impossible son took his own life.
He was only 22 years old when he died, he has struggled with bipolar disorder since his teens.
His ex girlfriend had organised a gig in the pub this evening to remember him.
I miss him so very much, I still have dreams where he walks through the door and goes straight to the fridge. Cheese lasts so much longer in there since he went.
I'm sorry for the self indulgence, I'm trying to be brave and not cry but all I really want to do is scream and shout at the unfairness of it all.
Photo of my beautiful blue eyed boy attached just because I can.

How can it be 10 years?
OP posts:
LadyCampanulaTottington · 01/07/2022 16:29

Hug virtual hugs OP. Your boy was beautiful.

Sirzy · 01/07/2022 16:32

Scream and Shout if you need to.

how lovely of his ex to arrange something like that.

Dic · 01/07/2022 16:37

What a beautiful photo. Lots of love to you OP Flowers

Chevyimpala67 · 01/07/2022 16:37

What a beautiful boy 💙
My heart goes out to you op 💔
Scream if you need to x

darumafan · 01/07/2022 16:40

@Sirzy, she is wonderful. She has persuaded her boyfriend's band to play tonight.
We lost our boy but his friends are all still in touch and we see them all regularly. It's bittersweet watching them all move on with their lives but we are so lucky to have them. James left us the most wonderful people who lived him as much as we do.

OP posts:
HSKAT · 01/07/2022 16:43

What a handsome man.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Scream from the hills.

I hope you can enjoy tonight and share lots of lovely memories of him Flowers

Therunecaster · 01/07/2022 16:43

I'm so very sorry. Sending all my love x

SkirridHill · 01/07/2022 17:06

Oh OP. What a handsome lad. Thank you for sharing him with us.

knackeredagain · 01/07/2022 17:09

Cry all you want for your beautiful boy. Your heart must hurt every day 💙

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