My dad is turning 70 and he is very fit and of sound mind. He’s always been active and energetic. Since retiring a few years ago, he’s been complaining of being bored and said he wouldn’t have retired until later as he actually enjoyed his job and it kept him engaged. He goes to the gym, goes on walks, sees his relatives. He goes shopping and cooks most days. He had a big building project on the go which is also helping to fill his time. I’ve noticed he’s becoming more ranty and has some outbursts, but he’s always been fiery.
Anyway. I’ve noticed in the past few years he has started to forget things - nothing major, but he may leave his phone when going out. This is something I do sometimes! It’s just little things where as before he really wouldn’t forget anything.
He can also be a little confused in the moment, eg, earlier today I gave him a print out, an official document that needs posting, and he went to staple it but came back and gave it to me and said ‘oh I don’t know where to staple it - it needs to be done properly - can you do it.’ Ie, left, right or Centre.
I couldn’t understand if he just didn’t know or whether he was being lazy. I’m sooooo busy and overwhelmed myself so I grabbed the paper and gave it to my mum to do. I was very frustrated and annoyed but then realised maybe he just genuinely gets lost in the moment.
I’m ashamed of how I react but he can be demanding in general. It wouldn’t be so bad if I didn’t have a job that is consuming me at the moment.
I don’t know if this is a sign of him declining. He’s 70 after all. But he’s great in every other way.
Are these signs to be concerned about? Should I take him to a GP? If so what should I be asking for?