I'm in a real stew over what we do next. We currently live in a beautiful but ridiculously expensive village in the South East (BUCKS) of England (£400,000+ for a 2 bed house). We are about to build a small, one room extension on our little, not very exciting, 2 bed council house so our daughter can have her own room. She currently shares with her little brother. She is in year 8 (the very end of) and my son is in year 3 (also end of) and we are having a wobble about it all.
My husband is a self- employed plumber but really 95% of his work is bathroom refurbishments which works well here as there is a lot of money in the area. Of course if we moved to Scotland, he could continue the same job but we are worried if there is the same demand for his trade. He is booked months in advance here.
My Dad is planning to move back to Scotland following 2 strokes and I'm worried about him being up there without help as well as considering if Scotland would just be better for us in general. He is going to be in the Dunblane area. If we do move too, we'll benefit from a house that's ready to go with enough space, hopefully for English family visitors too. However I'm stuck on where I should be looking. A drive of about an hour from him would be ok, we need to consider what is around for our kids, especially the teenager although our 8 year old won't be far behind. We are used to a train into a city (40 mins from London), a decent shopping centre within a half hour drive and easy access to the likes of Screwfix for husbands work. Dundee is very appealing but I'd love anyone's opinion that has made this move from a similar place to us and an idea of areas. I am also wondering about my daughter transferring schools at this age and what it would mean for her. Her birthday is may 09 so I think she'd be going into S2 in Scotland.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!