DS is 13, year 8. He's been upset this morning. A good friend of his has been picking on his appearance-all his minor 'flaws'. Crooked teeth, spots, double chin, that kind of thing. I think it's probably an attempt at banter thats hitting a nerve.
I know the mum well enough that a phone call would nip this in the bud but DS would be furious at me getting involved. DH says he's old enough now that he has to fight his own battles. Breaks my heart to see him so down on himself though, he's never been very confident.
Am I doing the right thing by just trying to boost his self esteem at home and not getting the mum involved? I told him he should tell this friend to fuck off next time, he might get the message then that it's not on.