My son has had some stuff going on for a while..
I'm really worried about his mental health his has self harmed. Said things about not wanting to live anymore etc. Although that part has slowed down a bit.
Hes been very aggressive at times and I'm actually scared of him. It's been going on for quite a while although the aggression is still there it has slowed compared to what it was.
This part I don't know how to explain very well but I'm going to try.
He says or expects very odd things. For example a couple of days ago he said his sister was giving him looks. Looking at him in a certain way. He asked me what I was going to do about it I told dd to stop looking at him. Then he kept saying it over and over. Some times she would just glance because she heard a sound or she happend to look in his direction. Other times I did not actually see. And because if that I said: " look both of you stop it . I can't watch you both at the same time to make sure you don't look at each other. My eyes can't look both ways at the same time. Then my son started sending me about 30 messages, asking me how im going to deal with it . What am I going to do about it and how he's getting the blame all the time . He kept telling me to me to be logic. I told him that I can't fix every tiny thing that it's impossible for my eyes to look both ways. I can't promise him that dd won't ever look at him again. He actually just would not stop it stressed me out so much . Even just reflecting on it now I want to cry ffs.
Another example is i went away for a couple of days . My adult daughter and her boyfriend stayed at my house to look after my son as he did not want to come. My son started saying that her boyfriend is playing up. That he needs to leave the house he needs to go. Daughter told me that nothing was happening. Nothing was going on at all. my son just accusing her boyfriend of playing up. But nothing was actually happening. And no one knew what he was talking about .
Then he kept saying I'm going to work out how im going to get you out of this house I'm going to make you leave . Then he went to his room. Daughter said he fell asleep and it was as if nothing had happened later.
Hes done similar things to the above on several occasions. There's alot of the time I don't know what he's talking about and it's something that has not happened. and he thinks everyone hates him. Everyone is against him.
He puts himself at risk by telling me he's staying at my daughters house then when she's asleep he will leave the house and come home at 2am in the morning. He's done things like jump out of the 1st floor window.
Incase meed to know he's 15. Dd is 11.
Hes not at school as I deregistered him a while back. As he was not coping his attendance was bad and we were not getting any help.
We asked for help from social services. Early help stepped in. That did not really go anywhere. Thry have now gone.
Hes on waiting list for CAMHS. Which is a very long wait. We had to fight to even get on the list.