I was with dh, together with another couple, at a lovely pub with live music.
We all took turns going to the bar for drinks, but when I went the barman made me feel so uncomfortable!
He said (in front of various people standing at the bar, and in a mocking tone), "Oh-oh, shall I SERVE you? You might miss the MUSIC'! and nudged his friend, who also laughed. I laughingly said 'It's ok, they've gone for their break'!
He then eyerolled me, then turned to the others, saying, 'Does she look THIRSTY enough'?! More laughter from the others, then he proceeded to put ice in each cider glass, shaking them as if making cocktails, fixing me with a menacing stare. 😮
I didn't know how to react, so just stood aside and waited, paid and went back to our table. He didn't treat the other female in our group like this (I asked her), and was perfectly polite to the young girl in front of me, so I was a bit baffled!
Going up to the bar is hardly unusual for me, dh & I always take turns. I'm fairly quiet though, so maybe he picked up this? No excuse for it though, surely?!