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"Doctors warn against over-medicalising menopause"

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flashbac · 16/06/2022 20:36

"Writing in the British Medical Journal they said there was an urgent need for a more realistic and balanced narrative which actively challenges the idea that menopause is synonymous with an inevitable decline in women’s health and wellbeing..."

www.theguardian.com/society/2022/jun/15/doctors-warn-against-over-medicalising-menopause-after-uk-criticism

I must admit, the raising awareness of how shit the menopause can be has created some worry about my impending menopause, so much so that I've decided against a career change in my 40s.

Are we making too much of a big deal and being overly negative? Or are these doctors just being patronising? Anyone had an easy menopause?

OP posts:
MarshaBradyo · 17/06/2022 16:53

Reallyreallyborednow · 17/06/2022 12:55

*With respect, you can do the research as it applies to your own specific circumstance yourself.

If you are well, without symptoms & happy as you are, for me, I'd be reading & informing myself but would be unlikely to take hrt*

with respect, i have done the research. And found nothing to clarify that in the absence of any symptoms HRT is beneficial.

which is why when people claim on here and in the media, davina etc that HRT prevents conditions such as Dementia and osteoporosis, making it sound as though I will put myself at risk NOT taking HRT, i am asking them to show me where this comes from.

any stats showing the beneficial effects of HRT have been done in those who need it for other reasons, so there is none to show it will benefit everyone.

from the research I have done it would appear that nobody has considered whether hrt is appropriate in all cases.

i haven’t found comprehensive analysis of risk either, which means I can’t make an informed decision on whether any risk may be offset by any potential benefit.

Here’s another poster who feels the same

maybe the rude pp could help post useful stuff rather than berating people

typical though

ancientgran · 17/06/2022 16:59

Sarahcoggles · 17/06/2022 16:20

@Newgirls I don't think you understood what I wrote, sorry I'll try to be clearer.

I see women in their 20s complaining of feeling low, arguing with their boyfriends, feeling bullied at work, experiencing all kinds of issues. Rather than looking at the issues, they're assuming they must be peri menopausal, and that HRT will cure their problems. That's due to media hype.

I think you were very clear.

SueSaid · 17/06/2022 17:00

'maybe the rude pp could help post useful stuff rather than berating people'

It is a definite theme on hrt threads. Someone points out peope like Davina are stating things as fact like protects against dementia when no such evidence exists and we get told to Google. We do, it's all conflicting and that is the problem.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

MarshaBradyo · 17/06/2022 17:02

SueSaid · 17/06/2022 17:00

'maybe the rude pp could help post useful stuff rather than berating people'

It is a definite theme on hrt threads. Someone points out peope like Davina are stating things as fact like protects against dementia when no such evidence exists and we get told to Google. We do, it's all conflicting and that is the problem.

I’m starting to wonder if these threads are targeted by invested people

if a question re dementia is that problematic

otherwise it’s very odd

EggRollsForever · 17/06/2022 17:03

MarshaBradyo · 17/06/2022 16:50

Why are you sitting asking the same questions over and over again? Are you not capable of looking up the NHS guidelines on HRT?

Why are you so interested in what I ask other posters?

if you have conclusive evidence re dementia feel free to post it ratter than be annoyingly rude

that’s more irritating.

but no I haven’t seen any links re dementia on NHS guidelines I’m pretty sure people would post them rather than make statements without backing them up

And if it’s so clear why are other posting asking the same re being unsure

these threads do a disservice to women due to posters like this.

Yes brain fog can be an issue too.

Blossomtoes · 17/06/2022 17:05

From the Alzheimer’s Society website

Studies looking at whether replenishing oestrogen levels using HRT can reduce women's risk of dementia have been inconclusive and contradictory. For example, some studies of women who were already using HRT during menopause found that their risk of dementia was lower than those not on HRT. However, other studies found no strong evidence for this. There is some evidence that HRT may even increase dementia risk. Clinical trials looking at the use of HRT to treat Alzheimer's disease in women, rather than prevent it, did not show any beneficial effects on cognition.

Until there is better evidence, the potential benefits of HRT as a way to reduce the risk of Alzheimer's disease do not outweigh the potential risks of HRT, which includes an increased risk of certain types of cancer, heart disease and stroke

MarshaBradyo · 17/06/2022 17:05

Yes brain fog can be an issue too.

what for you do you mean? Otherwise you’d be aware some things aren’t straight forward but still need research

not sure why you are having such an issue though

maybe the hot weather

MarshaBradyo · 17/06/2022 17:07

Blossomtoes · 17/06/2022 17:05

From the Alzheimer’s Society website

Studies looking at whether replenishing oestrogen levels using HRT can reduce women's risk of dementia have been inconclusive and contradictory. For example, some studies of women who were already using HRT during menopause found that their risk of dementia was lower than those not on HRT. However, other studies found no strong evidence for this. There is some evidence that HRT may even increase dementia risk. Clinical trials looking at the use of HRT to treat Alzheimer's disease in women, rather than prevent it, did not show any beneficial effects on cognition.

Until there is better evidence, the potential benefits of HRT as a way to reduce the risk of Alzheimer's disease do not outweigh the potential risks of HRT, which includes an increased risk of certain types of cancer, heart disease and stroke

Thank you

Finally a thread with info not just how dare you ask go Google

EggRollsForever · 17/06/2022 17:10

Your reluctance to Google and arm yourself with information about your own body is strange. Let's hope there are more educated women out there.

MarshaBradyo · 17/06/2022 17:12

EggRollsForever · 17/06/2022 17:10

Your reluctance to Google and arm yourself with information about your own body is strange. Let's hope there are more educated women out there.

Ok get it out

I see how angry you must be

I don’t care. I now know the definitive statements below were not really correct

And maybe that’s how myths are built - definitive statements that can’t be questioned lest people get very annoyed

springsally · 17/06/2022 17:18

There are so many women posting on this thread who know very little about the facts of HRT. Read the guidelines! eg not knowing if you can stay on it for life etc. Take some responsibility for your own body and find out

There's not actually one consistent answer, which is the problem. So google will throw up no don't/ yes you can. On MN it feels like you've got to go on it and stay on it forever. There are risks to that.

Reallyreallyborednow · 17/06/2022 17:19

Your reluctance to Google and arm yourself with information about your own body is strange. Let's hope there are more educated women out there

lol google isn’t the most reliable source of health information.

fwiw you can’t get much more educated than I am, and I have spend several years working in medical research.

but I am not up to date with HRT, “google” is not synonymous with research and you just end up spending hours trying to filter out anything sensible from the mountains of crap and opinion.

most people don’t have access to primary research in peer reviewed journals either.

asking other people how they have arrived at their conclusions is research. Collaboration with colleagues, asking them how they’ve reached their opinions is part of it.

if you use google as your main research tool you are likely not to reach a balanced, or correct opinion.

thank you @Blossomtoes

Blossomtoes · 17/06/2022 17:20

You’re more than welcome @Reallyreallyborednow 😘

ancientgran · 17/06/2022 17:23

Is it the heat making some people very cross? Or maybe the HRT isn't helping with the mood swings?

MarshaBradyo · 17/06/2022 17:26

Reallyreallyborednow · 17/06/2022 17:19

Your reluctance to Google and arm yourself with information about your own body is strange. Let's hope there are more educated women out there

lol google isn’t the most reliable source of health information.

fwiw you can’t get much more educated than I am, and I have spend several years working in medical research.

but I am not up to date with HRT, “google” is not synonymous with research and you just end up spending hours trying to filter out anything sensible from the mountains of crap and opinion.

most people don’t have access to primary research in peer reviewed journals either.

asking other people how they have arrived at their conclusions is research. Collaboration with colleagues, asking them how they’ve reached their opinions is part of it.

if you use google as your main research tool you are likely not to reach a balanced, or correct opinion.

thank you @Blossomtoes

Yes agree with this and well put

it’s a shame people become so combative

Blossomtoes · 17/06/2022 17:26

ancientgran · 17/06/2022 17:23

Is it the heat making some people very cross? Or maybe the HRT isn't helping with the mood swings?

It’s the heat. There’s a right old barney going on over that well worn chestnut of paying to prebook plane seats! The insults are really picking up pace!

EvilPea · 17/06/2022 17:34

ancientgran · 17/06/2022 17:23

Is it the heat making some people very cross? Or maybe the HRT isn't helping with the mood swings?

Naa everyone’s a twat today.
its the heat.

that may just be my hormonal view of the world today thoughGrin

Discovereads · 17/06/2022 17:45

At least I haven’t had any hot flashes today….or have I? Im basically a puddle of sweat at this point.

Hardbackwriter · 17/06/2022 17:50

Blossomtoes · 17/06/2022 15:30

I'm all for awareness but not at the price of middle aged women's dignity. Who will employ us if we can't think straight? We need to be very careful what we wish for here.

It’s a good point. My career actually took off post menopause, I was working as a contractor and won contracts in part because I wouldn’t need mat leave and didn’t need childcare. There’s a possibility that increased “awareness” will lead to increased prejudice against yet another cohort of women in the workplace.

This is sort of how I feel - though from the very naive position of being pre-menopause, so I'm sure posters will (probably quite rightly) tell me how wrong I am. I've read so much and seen so much about menopause leaving women completely unable to function at work and I do sometimes feel like the message is that I'll never really be on my A-game at work again - as soon as I don't have children so young that they affect my work I'll be left useless by the menopause. I'm very grateful for the raised awareness, which I'm sure will make things much easier for me than for earlier generations of women, but it is a terrifying message and it doesn't make me feel like people would much want to invest in my career, or that of any other mother in her mid-30s, if all my good years have gone...

becausetrampslikeus · 17/06/2022 17:55

It hits some people hard and it's not predictable

But do the general healthy living things - it does seem to decrease the chances of you having a bad time

people who have a bad time usually can try HRT

So be aware, know what to ask about if needs be , but not scared

alwaysontheloo · 17/06/2022 17:56

I had a hormonal condition called PMDD and had a total hysterectomy so was plunged into medical menopause overnight. I had a range of different oestrogen and testosterone HRT until I started having oestrogen and testo implants which I now only need changing once a year. (They are marvellous and I don't even think about HRT these days they just let me live my life!)

My Gynae is one of the world's best and a world expert on menopause and HRT and has patients that fly in from Italy and even the States sometimes for his services and he sits on various NHS boards and has had numerous papers published on HRT etc. He has patients in their 80s and 90s still on oestrogen for their bones and He knows his stuff.

I have BRCA1 & BRCA2 genes for breast cancer so was very worried about inflaming the risk of cancer through HRT and he has told me many times they now know HRT does NOT increase the risk of breast cancer and that it staves off dementia even in women who have a genetic predisposition to it (my Dad had Alzheimer's so this was fantastic news for me)

I would strongly urge any woman who is suffering to get bio-identical HRT. Our bodies naturally produced oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone before meno so why anyone assumes you don't need those 'adding back' baffles me. If one type doesn't agree with you try another, there's loads of different gels, patches, pellets, tablets and implants.

I never understand why women seem to wear suffering as a badge, you really don't need to suffer at all. If you sail through menopause without it then that's fantastic but if you're not then please don't suffer. Either way your body still needs oestrogen.

Winterlight · 17/06/2022 17:59

I expected to ‘sail through’ menopause had no worries as I’m fit, slim, healthy eater, don’t drink etc.

I suffered years of drenching night sweats, chronic insomnia and anxiety before I went on HRT. The nights were a living hell and I wanted to die just to end the misery.
The peak age for suicide in women is between the ages 50 and 54 (6.4 deaths per 100,000 in 2016) and I can’t help thinking that menopause plays a part.

Reallyreallyborednow · 17/06/2022 18:17

If you sail through menopause without it then that's fantastic but if you're not then please don't suffer. Either way your body still needs oestrogen

so your consultant thinks all women should be on hrt? What’s his name and I’ll have a read of his papers.

Our bodies naturally produced oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone before meno so why anyone assumes you don't need those 'adding back' baffles me

pre puberty though our bodies didn't have these hormones, so why do we need them adding back when it is clearly possible to function well without..

Discovereads · 17/06/2022 18:44

Winterlight · 17/06/2022 17:59

I expected to ‘sail through’ menopause had no worries as I’m fit, slim, healthy eater, don’t drink etc.

I suffered years of drenching night sweats, chronic insomnia and anxiety before I went on HRT. The nights were a living hell and I wanted to die just to end the misery.
The peak age for suicide in women is between the ages 50 and 54 (6.4 deaths per 100,000 in 2016) and I can’t help thinking that menopause plays a part.

No, doubtful menopause plays any statistically significant role at all because suicide risk for men and women both peak at the same ages and men have 3x the risk women do:

”Males aged 45 to 49 years had the highest age-specific suicide rate (27.1 deaths per 100,000 males); for females, the age group with the highest rate was also 45 to 49 years, at 9.2 deaths per 100,000.”
www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/deaths/bulletins/suicidesintheunitedkingdom/2018registrations

Its been well documented for decades that middle age is when our unhappiness as humans peaks. It’s more to do with realising you’re likely more than half way through your life and that is also the age when over half of people develop chronic health conditions/mobility limiting disabilities.