He has really hurt me

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Don't know what to do.

Been hit, thrown against the door and then head slammed against the door.

Had a drink poured over me.

Kicked off with my 15 year old who has a gcse in the morning.

He's very angry because he lost his job today. Currently in the front room with our 5 year old laughing and joking.

I'm currently sat on the kitchen floor

I know I should report, but my whole life will be turned upside down if I do.

I don't know what to do

oh pet, you poor thing. You have to accept that this is no life. There is nothing to hold the right way up. Please believe in yourself. You can start again. I walked out the door with two toddlers and a nappy bag and he attacked me as I left, but before that, I had agonised about leaving. It had seemed like a difficult decision!! Only after I got to safety did I wonder why it had seemed such a difficult decision. There is support out there. Don't tell yourself that that support is for people worse off. It's for people who need help. Please take a big breath and run for freedom. I know it takes so much strength. I am rooting for you. xx

I have no advice to add as others have covered it but next time could be so much worse so please make plans to get him out, even if not tonight.

Headteacher here - you call the police straight away and have him removed. I'm invigilating GCSE exams in the morning and the staff need to know. They'll get an ENCOMPASS referral in the morning, so they can help and assist your child in school.

Please call the police and do it now!

He's hurt you don't let him think it's ok,he could hurt your DC next!

Please get help,so many women are still having they're lives ended by abusive partners,please don't become another newspaper story!get help now!

I've been in abusive marriage,you can get help and be safe and have a better,happier life, I did it and tons of other women on here have done it.

We're all behind you,please please get help and get it now.xx

A 15 year old boy died last week trying to protect his Mum. I know you think it’s impossible, but this is really damaging your children. Please please stop covering for this piece of shit. Please call the Police.

I hope you're OK OP ❤️xxx

Sending you love and strength ❤💐

Please report him. This is abuse!
You and children deserve to be safe x

Whatever turmoil reporting could cause in your life will surely not be worse than living in fear of the next beating OP? Whatever you have to go through, even going to a refuge and starting again from scratch, has to be a better/easier option than living with someone who can do this (or god forbid worse) to you? Your DC's lives will be utterly blown to pieces if he slams your head into a door a bit too hard next time and they lose their mum, please don't give him chance

Please call the police, how dare he do this to you.

I too am saying you don't need to put up with this he has to go...call tyhe police they will help you and protect you...sending hugs..

Phone the police.

Get him removed, he cannot just continue as though nothing has happened.

This is evidence enough that he is a cunt.

So sorry to hear that clearly this incident has also woken up the 5 year old who is downstairs laughing and playing at midnight.

I hope you get the support you need.

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I know this is very easy for me to say from my own arm chair sitting on my fat arse.
There's no question doubts if buts or maybes about this you need to get rid of this toxin.

Your life will be turned upside down if you stay with the brute.
That's assuming you'll be fortunate enough to still have a life.
The next beating you may not live to tell the tale. Sorry to be blunt.
Not only is it not safe for you its also not mentally fair on your kids or indeed yourself. Mind you you don't need me to point that out.

How are you today? 🌷