Hi everyone,
I hope I've popped this in the right topic - I'm a newbie at posting so sorry if it should be in a different one! I'm looking for some advice from people on here please, I always read threads and find everyone is so helpful!
I'm 28 and live with my fiancé, who has been begging for years for us to start trying for a baby, but for me it's never been the right time/I've not felt ready (not in the right place career wise, didn't have a house at the time, wanted to do some big holidays and things I considered my 'goals' first). Even recently I was saying I wasn't ready for a other few years, maybe when I'm 30-31yo.
However...last week I had some strange symptoms...strange taste/heightened smell, really emotional, bloated, nauseous etc. so I did a frer...bfn. Strangely, despite not thinking I wanted to start ttc for years, I felt kind of disappointed/sad when I saw one line, and haven't been able to stop thinking about it. This has now got me reconsidering everything!
We're planning to get married end of 2024 and start trying then - but now after reading threads on here I've realised it seems to take a long time for some people and I'm wondering if we should maybe just go for it and possibly (if it happened quickly!) have a baby before getting married...otherwise it'll be 3 years away which seems a long time.
If anyone who has felt the same and has had children/waited has any advice it would be so greatly appreciated 🥰🥰 sorry if any of this sounds naive or daft, my head is just a bit all over the place thinking about it since feeling sad after the bfn! Xx