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Party advice please

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PicturesOfLily · 02/06/2022 19:07

I’m not sure what to do for dd’s birthday this year and wanted to ask for some thoughts please. My issue is that she turns 5 at the beginning of September so she leaves pre-school in July but won’t meet her class until after her birthday due to a staggered start to Reception. We had an informal party in the park last year but most of the pre-school kids we invited didn’t turn up and also didn’t rsvp so I didn’t know how many were coming. In fact, the only 3 that did come have parents who work there so thankfully we have some other friends who came too. I think it was too long between sending invites out in July and the party in September but I didn’t have a way to contact the parents of those who left. Dd would love a party with a bouncy castle and visiting princess etc but I’m reluctant to do that and have most kids not turn up again so I thought we could maybe have one a couple of weeks after her birthday and invite her whole Reception class and hope some can come. The downside to that is she won’t really know them yet. Also, I think inviting the whole class plus family friends plus some preschool friends could get ridiculous. I’ve suggested we do a day out rather than a party but she really wants a party. Any thoughts? Thanks for reading!

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Kite22 · 02/06/2022 22:40

One of mine is an early September birthday.
We always did her parties around the start of October - give everyone chance to settle in a bit and then send invitations out a couple of weeks later.

We'd have a bit of a tea party / cake and candles / open presents from Grandparents and close relations the weekend nearest their birthday, and she's always liked the fact she has always had "3 birthdays" (the actual day , at home, with us, the weekend with wider family, and then the 'friends from school' party about 4 weeks after her actual birthday.

I've never done whole class parties though.

PicturesOfLily · 03/06/2022 08:43

Thanks for your reply @Kite22 I hadn’t thought of October but that would indeed give us more time to get her settled into school and get invites out without it feeling such a rush. To be honest, I don’t really want to do a whole class party but I’m not sure she’ll have made many friends after the first few weeks to know who to invite!

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