Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Party advice please

2 replies

PicturesOfLily · 02/06/2022 19:07

I’m not sure what to do for dd’s birthday this year and wanted to ask for some thoughts please. My issue is that she turns 5 at the beginning of September so she leaves pre-school in July but won’t meet her class until after her birthday due to a staggered start to Reception. We had an informal party in the park last year but most of the pre-school kids we invited didn’t turn up and also didn’t rsvp so I didn’t know how many were coming. In fact, the only 3 that did come have parents who work there so thankfully we have some other friends who came too. I think it was too long between sending invites out in July and the party in September but I didn’t have a way to contact the parents of those who left. Dd would love a party with a bouncy castle and visiting princess etc but I’m reluctant to do that and have most kids not turn up again so I thought we could maybe have one a couple of weeks after her birthday and invite her whole Reception class and hope some can come. The downside to that is she won’t really know them yet. Also, I think inviting the whole class plus family friends plus some preschool friends could get ridiculous. I’ve suggested we do a day out rather than a party but she really wants a party. Any thoughts? Thanks for reading!

OP posts:
Kite22 · 02/06/2022 22:40

One of mine is an early September birthday.
We always did her parties around the start of October - give everyone chance to settle in a bit and then send invitations out a couple of weeks later.

We'd have a bit of a tea party / cake and candles / open presents from Grandparents and close relations the weekend nearest their birthday, and she's always liked the fact she has always had "3 birthdays" (the actual day , at home, with us, the weekend with wider family, and then the 'friends from school' party about 4 weeks after her actual birthday.

I've never done whole class parties though.

PicturesOfLily · 03/06/2022 08:43

Thanks for your reply @Kite22 I hadn’t thought of October but that would indeed give us more time to get her settled into school and get invites out without it feeling such a rush. To be honest, I don’t really want to do a whole class party but I’m not sure she’ll have made many friends after the first few weeks to know who to invite!

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread