Periods going a bit wonky, as above. They're always 3-5 days early or 3-5 days late and they now last 5-8 days instead of 4-5 days.
Mood swings and anxiety, especially in the run up to my period where every little thing triggers off an anxiety response.
Heart palpitations around ovulation and in the week leading up to my period.
Hot flushes. They're not spectacularly bad but still unpleasant, usually happen just as I'm going to bed where I'll feel like I'm burning for 10-30 minutes and then I'm normal again. DH will feel my skin and tells me I feel normal temperature even though I feel like I'm on fire.
Hair loss, its getting thin on top and if I shave my legs it's a good 3-4 days before I start feeling prickly as it's slow to grow back.
Aching breasts, especially around my period, and mild digestive issues.
Low emotional tolerance, I've got no patience for anything, I get touched out and overloaded much faster than I used to, as soon as I start to feel stressed I go from zero to sixty with very little in-between.
Muscle aches and pains especially around my hips, ribs, shoulders, and back. Costochondritis. Low energy.
Hair on my top fucking lip because the universe is a shit show.
Dry skin and itching. Moisturising is now a nightly ritual otherwise I end up raking my arms and legs to pieces.
Forgetfulness. I go to the shop for one thing and come back with everything but, go into a room and forget why I'm there, go to tell DH something and forget what it was. I get brain fog anyway as I'm hypermobile but it's like it's levelled up.
GP was very thorough as I'm only 41. Referred me to the breast clinic for the boob pain, cardiac clinic for the palpitations, gastro clinic for rhe digestive issues, and did prettyuch every blood test you can think of including a CA125 antigen test. All came back normal. Thyroid normal, blood pressure normal, all smears up to date and normal, blood sugar normal. She said its very likely perimenopause and can last 10-15 years. She said its hormones waning and reconfiguring ready for menopause, much like they do in the run up to puberty. She recommended the patches to top my levels up and see if it eases the symptoms. I took Norihisterone last year for a week to delay my period and honestly felt the best I'd felt in ages while I was on it so she thinks that supports the theory that I need a top up. I have one type of patch that I use for two weeks and then another type that I use for two weeks, one has two hormones in it and the other has one.