I have a friend who has an adult DD with SEN. Her DD has really struggled with lockdown and it’s massively affected her DD’s mental health and as a knock-on effect her parents too. Her DD had a part-time job but lost it because of the pandemic and is now really depressed and struggles to get out of bed. My friend is understandably really struggling. She is also looking after her elderly mum a lot too. I’ve tried to suggest that her mum has a carer or even just a cleaner so she has less to do to help out as she is so exhausted. It’s not a question of money (her DH has said he would pay if her DM didn’t want to) but she won’t countenance it. I’ve tried to look up support groups or suggest she takes her DD to the GP etc or her DH take DD out for the afternoon to give her a break but she says no. I know I may be interfering (I really try not to push, just occasionally suggest things) but she just looks so world-weary and her DD used to be a positive person and is now really sad. Should I back off? Any suggestions?