Grandparents don’t make effort

[Cheryl22x]

I’ve been having trouble with my partners mum the grand parent to my child for a while now because she doesn’t make any effort with my daughter she said on text message that we either bring her grand child over to hers to see her or she won’t be seeing her because she isn’t coming to visit.

what are peoples thoughts on this ?

Well she has told you that she isnt interested and wont be visiting. So leave it for your partner to decide whether he is taking his DC to visit his mother. I wouldnt be making any effort at all to establish a relationship with this woman

Do you think this makes her not interested? I’m on the urge of giving up now. I don’t receive any texts, calls nothing he’s actually my ex partner when he goes over to visit her she doesn’t ask about her either.
also I don’t allow him to just take her over as there’s been a issues that I don’t trust them. But I am still allowing her to see her, I could take her to her house with her son, she could visit at her sons house, or my house but she never asks! And has said she isn’t visiting she will only see her if he takes her over.