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I've just found out I'm pregnant.

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Treacspotnoodle · 17/05/2022 20:19

Name change.

Warning for anyone who may be triggered by mention of abortion.

I've just found out I'm pregnant. Not sure what I want from this thread but I don't feel like I can tell anyone except my partner.

We already have a toddler and have agreed we won't be trying for another couple of years for a second due to my partner having a really important year of work (he owns his own company and big things are happening this year for him hence waiting to try for a second child)

So when I saw the positive test we both agreed straight away that an abortion would be the best way forward without hesitation.
But in the back of my mind I can't help but think what if I'm making a huge mistake and this could be our family completed. Now I've had an hour or so to think about it I feel like my emotions are getting the better of me and it's scaring me so much
My partner 100% does not want to keep it so I don't feel like I can talk to him about how I'm feeling.

Again I don't know what I expect back from writing this I just think I need to get the words out somehow.

OP posts:
Sapphirensteel · 17/05/2022 20:34

Could it be that your DP is also having second thoughts after the initial shock?
If you’re very early on there’s no immediate rush, is there? You’ve got a window of a few weeks. Whatever you choose is fine but worth having another talk now the initial shock has worn off to make sure you’re both on the same page.

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