A coach/mentor male figure I realise has bullied me. I won't bore you with the details but I now know staying under the leadership of this man was merely a trauma response to my own childhood. I was part of a team and community but he's given me the silent treatment and no one seems to have noticed or cared. I wonder if he has bad mouthed me. What is hard is seeing him get praised and congratulated when I know what he can be like. I just need to move on now and I will. What I find is that you are rarely the only one and I'm sure at some point someone else will feel the same. I've learnt though. My gut was telling me and I ignored my intuition.