We both earn well and recently had decent pay rises (me 6%, DH 19%), but we also recently bought our forever house so have a large mortgage (thankfully 5 year fix at 1.29%) and house needs a lot of work (we kept cash back to cover the major stuff but will have to save for the rest).
and we are concerned. Groceries have gone up noticeably, petrol etc. I am (not so much DH but working on it!) definitely much more conscious of what I’m buying and spending - dinners/lunches out have reduced a lot (esp as we’ve noticed the prices going up there too) and lots more cooking from scratch.
our only saving grace(s) are that we currently have nursery fees of 1800 a month, which drop to 1400 from our august pay packets due to free hours. Then reduce again to about 1100 from sept 2023 when DC1 starts school. By Sept 2025 they will be gone completely (though replaced by holiday clubs but not to same extent) and I am planning to increase my hours from sept 2023 also to swell coffers
keep telling myself re mortgage that when fixed rate expires (April 2027), even if internet rates have increased we should have headroom given no nursery fees and increased wages. But I’m still worried and going to try to squirrel away what I can between now and then
hard when DH doesn’t think there is any need to worry and spends because “it’s only 5” or “it’s only 20”.
I also worry for my parents, particularly with the increased gas costs - they are on gas and my mother has it tropical. My dad is also unwell. They don’t ever discuss their financial situation and just say they are fine whenever I ask, but I do worry