So I have 2 children with partner. I have other children as well. We don't live together. But he stays over sometimes. It was ds birthday yesterday so he spent the day and slept over.
This morning he gets up at 6.10 for the toilet. But then he opens/closes the bedroom door which is noisy. Then the same with the bathroom door. Then the same on the way back to bed. So that 4 noisy doors.
Then he gets into bed starts trying to talk shit to me. I'm tired and want to sleep. Took me a good 20 mins to start drifting back to sleep .
Then at 7am he decided to get up and get ready to leave. So I have to get up as well. Because hes not awear of stuff. Like when he comes in the house or leaves it he never ever closes the door properly and it can be swinging open behinde him literally 2 foot away and he's not awear. I say M you have left the door open . He will just say yeah yeah. Then I have to say. You need to close the door. So again he will close it without pushing the handle up . So it swings open again literally as soon as he's pulled the door up again he's not awear of it. He does the same with leaving the house. He pulled the door shut. of down the path way. door swinging and he's not awear at all. And it risks my dog getting out. Or someone coming in ect.
This morning I tried to go back to bed just as I snuggled down he's ringing the bell saying he's forgot his classes .which he wears all the time. So then he frantically looking for them. Which just feels to much first thing.
To be fair to him. He does have hearing issues. He's almost completely deaf in 1 ear and the other isn't as bad. But he does wear hearing aids. So I think it effects how noisy he can be as I don't think he's fully awear how noisy he is when he's doing general things. I don't know if him having hearing problems would make him less aware of what's going on around him. Is it not common sense to check a house door to make sure its locked?
I'm up at 6am mon-fri. I have alot to deal with generally looking after the house kids school runs ect . But on top of that there's special needs. Mental health things. And some other really hard stuff going on. Which leave me mentally and physically drained. To the point I often feel close to some sort of break down.
The only downtime I get if I'm lucky is when I'm sleeping. Or just chilling out before the day begins On a sat/sun.
Now that I have written this it feels really stupid. And I know I'm being petty basically over a door. I suppose now I can see that I should just delete it. But I have taken a while to write it si I will post anyway.