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Extremely realistic dream

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Midlifemusings · 02/05/2022 06:41

Yesterday I was dealing with a minor situation with a sibling where there were some minor hurt feelings - nothing major. Somehow overnight, I continued this discussion and situation into my dreams. It was extremely realistic and in the dream my sibling took the situation a step further and did something quite unfair, causing more hurt. In my dream, I dealt with the situation as it unfolded and all the further outcomes of that and we eventually reached some form of resolution but still with hurt feelings. I woke up this morning, not realizing that the escalation had been a dream. I thought it had all transpired before I went to bed last night. Then I went to look at a text sibling had sent and the text wasn't there. I couldn't find any of the texts / calls that had gone back and forth related to the escalation. I was initially very confused but as I went back over the whole scenario, I realized that the timeline wouldn't have made sense as I could see the last text I sent before going to sleep and it was clearly before the whole escalating situation happened. It was only then that I realized it must have happened in a dream while I slept.

It is so strange. It still feels like it was real and the conversations were real and the feelings were real and now I am trying to stop feeling hurt about something that didn't even happen. I am relieved they didn't do what I thought they did! I don't recall ever having had such a realistic dream that just carried on from real life like that before. It is a bit discombobulating!

Anyone have this happen before?

OP posts:
LollyLol · 02/05/2022 06:50

It’s a glitch in the matrix.

something2say · 02/05/2022 07:06

It's anxiety related to the situation. It will fade.

Midlifemusings · 02/05/2022 07:09

It is just a bit crazy how your brain can do that while you sleep!

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Mummadeze · 02/05/2022 07:13

I have had some hyper realistic dreams before and it is really hard to stop thinking about them. You almost think the other person involved must know too what happened. It is so weird.

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