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Challenging behaviours in kids - is this an indication of the adults they'll be?

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Vividdreaming1 · 27/04/2022 11:05

I have a few examples of this being true, but I'd be interested to know other opinions/experiences.

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UpYourBumHun · 27/04/2022 11:08

no , not in my experience and they have turned out to be amazing parents too

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 27/04/2022 11:12

Nope. Mine turned out fine. His challenging behaviour turned out to be the result of untreated adhd and acute anxiety.

WildCoasts · 27/04/2022 11:15

Not at all, in my experience. I have six, almost all grown.

Vividdreaming1 · 27/04/2022 11:16

@UpYourBumHun And @BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation lovely to hear that

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newnamethanks · 27/04/2022 11:19

Depends on how parents teach them to deal with it. Challenging back is rarely helpful.

Remmy123 · 27/04/2022 11:31

I hope not

my 10 year old is having angry outbursts (throwing things.., screaming) when stressed over honework and he cannot control himself.

DropYourSword · 27/04/2022 11:34

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 27/04/2022 11:12

Nope. Mine turned out fine. His challenging behaviour turned out to be the result of untreated adhd and acute anxiety.

Would you mind expanding on what those behaviours were /looked like @BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation - I'm going through an assessment process with my son at the moment and it would be really helpful and possibly reassuring to hear a bit more

bigbluebus · 27/04/2022 11:36

Mine had challenging behaviour all through nursery and school resulting in a diagnosis of ASD and being allocated 1:1 support throughout school to ensure he did some work and didn't disrupt the lessons. He hated school (and the support ) even though academically he was bright.
Went to Uni away from home where he gained a BA and a Masters. Has held down various mundane holiday jobs and now works in an office job.

springhassprung22 · 27/04/2022 13:17

I hope not. My DC are young (6 and under) and have all been challenging in various ways, the 6 year old is maturing, I think/hope, and is such a good boy in many ways. Enjoys naughtiness though.

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