Yeah I'm not keen on things like money box or soft toy soothers, we got loads!!
Yes people still use sleeping vans like that and its lovely, but expensive, you can get nice ones from asda for £10. But then itsnice to get nicer things as gifts, you sound really thoughtful!!
Whatever you buy, consider the seasons. So if bsby is newborn now, don't buy summer clothing in 6-9 month, chances are they'll fit into it in winter. And I'd avoid fleece sleep suits, I got a few and yes they are nice, but I'm too worried about overheating to use them. I have a 3.5yr old and a 16 week old.
Friends of ours brought us posh ready meals that were lovley, healthier and quicker than a takeaway, I wouldn't have bought them for myself, but they were so handy to have in the fridge!